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[Sri]

I've never been kissed. I'm 26 is that strange??? Probably because the moment has never arrived. I am always surrounded by people, not that that is bad. I just want prayer because I want to have more friends which God is blessing me with and also would like that tangible special someone relationship sometime in my life. I've been mistaken for 16 before so I guess that is nice, but yah.

 

[Ruckhard82]

It's abnormal for a lass at your age, but by that I only mean that the average person has done a touch more than kissing by 26. Whether that's positive or negative is something only you get to make the call on.

 

[Sri]

well I don't wanna be a hussy. I am just looking for agreement with balancing my social life whether it is to much of a social life or not enough

 

[BreadAlone]

Have you never had a boyfriend either?

I think it's awesome that you've never kissed anyone. Save it for someone you love.

 

[GoodNewsJim]

On the positive side: You have the opportunity to save your first kiss for at the altar if you wanted to.

 

[Edwards1984]

I've never been kissed. I'm 26 is that strange??? Probably because the moment has never arrived. I am always surrounded by people, not that that is bad. I just want prayer because I want to have more friends which God is blessing me with and also would like that tangible special someone relationship sometime in my life. I've been mistaken for 16 before so I guess that is nice, but yah.

I'm 26 and have only ever kissed one person in my life. Trust me, it's nothing to be excited about.

 

[canehdianhotstuff]

I am 25 and only kissed one person, and it wasn't till a few weeks ago.

 

[BreadAlone]

I'm 26 and have only ever kissed one person in my life. Trust me, it's nothing to be excited about.

LOL this.

 

[JohnDB]

Yep....that is strange.

There is likely something going wrong with your social interactions up to this point.

It isn't the quantity that matters so much as the quality. You must never flirt at all. And for guys that is a really big turn off.

Dating is kinda really important. Even if the dates are flops they are still important. (regardless of what some churchs are in favor of)

Dating is where you understand what it takes to live and get along with some one else of the opposite sex....what kind of guys you really enjoy the company of...and ultimately what kind of guy you would really like to marry.

Dating requires flirting...in order to get married one day you have to begin dating. (it is one of those pre-requisite thingies)

I ain't suggesting tart behavior...there are plenty of those running about. But subtle yet consistent clues to a gentleman that you like wouldn't be such a bad idea.

you might just get kissed....I promise it doesn't hurt a lick.

 

[BreadAlone]

^ That may be a prevailing or interesting purview, but it isn't the only one. And it sure wasn't the predominant one in days where people didn't even choose their partners.

 

[Howard Cneal]

It is strange, yes.

But do you really want to be 'normal'? Believing man has a meaningless existence independent of God? Having an "average" of three marriages in your lifetime?

Being normal isn't all it's cracked up to be. It isn't even an admirable thing, these days.

 

[Andrew12]

Have you never had a boyfriend either?

I think it's awesome that you've never kissed anyone. Save it for someone you love.

 

[K9_Trainer]

I'm 26 and have only ever kissed one person in my life. Trust me, it's nothing to be excited about.

This XD

Believe me, you ain't missing out on anything I mean, yeah its nice, but believe me, its way over inflated by romance movies and chick flicks.

 

[ImperialPhantom]

JohnDB and Ruckhard82 are living in reality. Everyone else, I'm not so sure about.

Number one, if you think kissing is "no fun" or "overrated", you're either lying or you haven't been kissing the right person (or people). Maybe you've kissed some lousy kissers.

And oh please to the "back in the days of arranged marriage" post. This is the year 2010, in America. Let's not pretend it's another era, or that the past eras were better. Why can't people be honest, and get with reality?

Anyways...

To the OP: yes, it is abnormal. Other than that question, I'm not exactly sure what you are asking, but by no means is it too late to find a "special someone". I honestly wouldn't go letting just anyone know about never having been kissed, though (as far as in your dating life goes), but that's just me.

 

[BreadAlone]

JohnDB and Ruckhard82 are living in reality. Everyone else, I'm not so sure about.

Number one, if you think kissing is "no fun" or "overrated", you're either lying or you haven't been kissing the right person (or people). Maybe you've kissed some lousy kissers.

Maybe so. Or maybe not everyone has the 100% same opinions as you?

Even if you are correct, do you REALLY think that having her first kiss is going to be that much different than ours were? PARTICULARLY since we seem to share similarities with her?

And oh please to the "back in the days of arranged marriage" post. This is the year 2010, in America. Let's not pretend it's another era, or that the past eras were better. Why can't people be honest, and get with reality?

Yes, it is 2010 in America. But things don't really change that much. It wasn't that long ago that people didn't really decide or choose or date for years and years. My grandparents married at 18. That's only 70 years ago.

Anyways...

To the OP: yes, it is abnormal. Other than that question, I'm not exactly sure what you are asking, but by no means is it too late to find a "special someone". I honestly wouldn't go letting just anyone know about never having been kissed, though (as far as in your dating life goes), but that's just me.

I would think that sharing your thoughts, fears, and opinions would be important to discuss with a potential mate.

 

[RobertMerton]

haha no
i'd hate to be normal

i like to be different

 

[Dzhessika]

I guess I am in the abnormal category as well since I am 25 and have yet to be kissed or asked out for that matter either .But I'm sure not going to let every guy if and when I start dating kiss me right away I want it to be with someone special and I know I can trust.

 

[Perhaps Today]

I've never been kissed. I'm 26 is that strange??? Probably because the moment has never arrived. I am always surrounded by people, not that that is bad. I just want prayer because I want to have more friends which God is blessing me with and also would like that tangible special someone relationship sometime in my life. I've been mistaken for 16 before so I guess that is nice, but yah.

I can relate to what you're dealing with here. I'm 33 and the same is true for me. I pray that God will bring someone special into your life.

 

[Sri]

thanks all

 

[mina]

It's probably not "normal", but I don't think it really matters if you kissed someone at 15 or not or a different person a day for years or never. Never having kissed someone really has no bearing on your future unless you let it. Just be open to meeting people and you will find someone and all it takes is one and kissing isn't hard to learn, lol.