On a Christian forum you would think someone would recognize that this is a spiritual attack on young men. What did we do in the past to motivate young men to be good men, not dispicable cowards willing to kill children and die instead of say, getting a job and being a productive citizen?
I've talked about that. Was it this thread or another? I'll repeat myself:
When I was a kid, the main point of discussion any adult had with a kid was: "What are you going to be when you grow up?" I got that constantly. If a random adult on the street spoke to me at all, it was to ask, "What are you going to be when you grow up?"
That question makes two points: A. We expect you to grow up and be something. B. The choice is yours to make...we expect you to make it.
Eighteen years old, particularly a young man's life, is a point of extreme emotional stress in the US. It's the point that someone who has been treated as a child, given no expectations all his life is suddenly treated as an adult.
We can get more into the myriad details, but 18 is a psychological live-or-die point for many young men if they hadn't already been tracked into a lifetime goal by careful parental and social management of expectations and capabilities.
But 18 is a point of zero stability for--I'd say now--the
majority of young men. It's a smack on the head with a two-by-four.
Remember most young men in the US are
not headed for college and have
not been trained for anything else, nor have they been guided into a path toward any particular useful life.