my soon to be ex husband and i are living in separated states after he left after a 8 month stint in hell. we have been married for 8 years 4years of abuse on both ends and a 4 year separation. well that 4 year separation ended when we both realized we still loved each other and that God had told both of us we were meant to be. 8 months into that reconciliation he left after i had a miscarriage nad lost my self control i was so angry at him he blamed me for the loss he quit his job before christmas and locked himself up in the bedroom we started the verbal abuse on each other again. he wanted to move as a family to kentucky to start a farm i was willing to leave it all and be the duitful wife God was calling me to be well he dcided that he did not want me or the kids to go with him. he left about 3 months ago just today he has decided that he wont give me the divorce im filing for based on the grounds that he wont be in good standing with God nor will he be able to remarry if he joins the amish/mennonite community like he wants problem with that is he has been divorced already i am his second wife. he says if we remarry then we are commiting adultry. i am not going to stay single for the rest of my life i have been over him for a long time, i just need advice as to how to deal with him.....
