Hi I believe I have forgiven my dad because I have chosen to forgive and I now love him.
But I still struggle with feelings of fear anger and hate direcyted towards God myself and others. I have been told I have Borderline PD which is a form of Complex PTSD similar to MPD\DID. This means I have a lot of feelings including extreme fear.
In my case religion and hearing the name of Jesus causes me these emotions. Again and again I am told I am demonised because of the anger and self pity. But I know this is fear based trauma. And people telling me my anger is because God let the abuse happen! But its not
My hate of God comes towards the picture my abusers painted of Him. As a demanding legalist who will throw me into Hell if I make a mistake or don't overcome all my sins (and there are many) in this life
I'm crying as I write this because it seems I won't ever be free. I want to go to Heaven when I die and to do this I need to please Jesus. But I can't let go of these sins. They are coping mechanisms for me. I don't know how long I've got to live due to physical disorder I have and I am so scared
But I still struggle with feelings of fear anger and hate direcyted towards God myself and others. I have been told I have Borderline PD which is a form of Complex PTSD similar to MPD\DID. This means I have a lot of feelings including extreme fear.
In my case religion and hearing the name of Jesus causes me these emotions. Again and again I am told I am demonised because of the anger and self pity. But I know this is fear based trauma. And people telling me my anger is because God let the abuse happen! But its not
My hate of God comes towards the picture my abusers painted of Him. As a demanding legalist who will throw me into Hell if I make a mistake or don't overcome all my sins (and there are many) in this life
I'm crying as I write this because it seems I won't ever be free. I want to go to Heaven when I die and to do this I need to please Jesus. But I can't let go of these sins. They are coping mechanisms for me. I don't know how long I've got to live due to physical disorder I have and I am so scared