So much Pain

[Amin]

I do not know if there is any in New York City, I know there was one in State College, PA known as Abba House.

Wow, State College,

That's not too far from where i live.

Maybe an hour and a half.

If i knew you were there i would have baked you a cake.

I've been to New York City several times.

I'm sure there are, but it's a big place to look.

Chuck.

 

[Silver-winged Flyer]

Find out where there are other churches in your area and visit them and see where you feel comfortable and where you can meet people your age.
You can't expect other people to talk to you first. Try approaching people and asking simple questions, like what activities they have for young adults etc. Being too desperate also doesn't help and it tends to chase people away.

I hope you do find friends, I'm in a si milar situation so I know how you feel.

 

[HolyGhostFilledMama]

Hi,
I'll be praying for you. Are you a member of a gym or sports club at all? That may be a good place to meet some friends. Start a bible study and have people over that you know and let them invite friends. Just some idea's. Your in my prayers. You can PM me if you'd like. I'll talk to you on here. ((((HUGS))))

 

[DepressedChristian]

Dear Members:
I am 25 years old and extremely lonely. I live with my mother and sister, but I need friends. I need love in my life, that it hurts even telling you about it. I met a couple of ladies at the church that I been attending, but there is so bonding that feel from these ladies. When look at me they wonder why I do not smile a lot. The reason is that I feel empty and I do not think God understands. I feel this way not because of the holiday season, I feel this way because of this empty feeling in my heart. Not being able to connect with another woman not having a male friend. Do not know where to go other church to find friends. Does any one have any advice for lonely yound woman who is in a crisis right now.

I'll pray for you. I'm in a similar situation myself.

 

[jennwiln]

Hi,
I'll be praying for you. Are you a member of a gym or sports club at all? That may be a good place to meet some friends. Start a bible study and have people over that you know and let them invite friends. Just some idea's. Your in my prayers. You can PM me if you'd like. I'll talk to you on here. ((((HUGS))))

I am not part of any gyms, and I do not have the time right now to join a bible study.

 

[RiseAgain]

advice for lonely yound woman who is in a crisis right now.

Yes learn how to smile, it's human nature to want to be around people who are up in life, have you not ever noticed how people move away from others who are alway down, they are afraid you will bring them down. The Doors will open for you when you take charge of you. Its a state of mind. God is there, open your self up to him, and you will find peace, love, then guess what....you will smile...

 

[jennwiln]

Yes learn how to smile, it's human nature to want to be around people who are up in life, have you not ever noticed how people move away from others who are alway down, they are afraid you will bring them down. The Doors will open for you when you take charge of you. Its a state of mind. God is there, open your self up to him, and you will find peace, love, then guess what....you will smile...

I smile a lot, I just think that something is wrong with me and I put a wall around myself.

 

[jennwiln]

Have you tried Craigslist? They have social groups that go out and do stuff together. I know that they have a lot of co-ed sports leagues if you're into that. I've also seen knitting clubs and other such groups looking for members.

I am not really interested in that website. Thank you for your help.