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So lets be grown up & talk about OBOB, articles, etc.

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Michie

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How about you scour the Internet really hard for the, say, 2 most interesting, compelling, and best-sourced articles you can find on any give day and limit yourself to posting only them? Less bumping required and a higher average quality of thread.
Ok, that's constructive but I don't think 2 is reasonable.

A reply like "complain to management then" indicates that you're no more willing to consider criticism and change your style than you have been any of the 30 other times this topic has been discussed. There are things which I'm fairly certain will never change. Michie will always flood the forum with spam and play the martyr when she's called on it, AMDG will never allow facts other way of anything that happens to conform to her worldview, WA will continuously fail to understand nuance, and Fantine will never be respectful of tradition.

Now there you go being personal Mike. I brought up bring staff into this in another thread but you did not want to. Complaining to management brings management into the issue. I have no problems with it.

Please stop assigning motives & caricatures to people.
 
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OK

Mke up a list of folk who have expressed a liking of your link threads and send them your latest contributions via a group pm.

So they get the benefit of your links and the forum is free from being spammed...
That does not contribute to the activity of the forum though. And that is what they are for.
 
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Nice Lizzie. Real classy, considering the moral support I have given you in Reilly's over the past few months...
Silvio, don't start that when you & our friend could not even address honest questions in the Pub. This thread is supposed to resolve issues. Not bring others up.
 
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I personally don't see what the big deal is, a lot of Michies threads gander numerous responses(like this one) and as Davidnic said if a thread is of not much interest it doesn't tend to stay on the front page very long. I think it'd be a real shame if people complained to management about Michie, as she's a long term member who contributes a lot to the community as far as I can tell, and I find various things she posts to be of interest. Ultimately if you disagree you're welcome to make your own threads on issues/topics that interest you, then if others wish they can contribute to them. I've made numerous threads myself, sometimes they get a lot of responses, sometimes they get a lot of views and no responses, is just the way it goes.

God Bless you all
 
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Nice Lizzie. Real classy, considering the moral support I have given you in Reilly's over the past few months...


It was a genuine question. You don't post in the main forum. Yet everyone complains that there's not enough going on here. Michie keeps things going and you tell her she's not entitled to post at all basically. That seems rude and confusing.
 
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Ok, that's constructive but I don't think 2 is reasonable.

That's 700+ threads a year, enough to keep you still solidly in 1st place as thread-starters.

Now there you go being personal Mike. I brought up bring staff into this in another thread but you did not want to. Complaining to management brings management into the issue. I have no problems with it.

Please stop assigning motives & caricatures to people.

I don't think anyone who's every had to deal with staff here wants more management meddling.

People create caricatures of themselves, they don't need my help.

I like the idea of having one thread per topic too. Have a gay marriage spam thread, a Catholic blogger spam thread and a news-other spam thread. We can call them spam cans and you can keep them full and at the top.
 
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I personally don't see what the big deal is, a lot of Michies threads gander numerous responses(like this one) and as Davidnic said if a thread is of not much interest it doesn't tend to stay on the front page very long. I think it'd be a real shame if people complained to management about Michie, as she's a long term member who contributes a lot to the community as far as I can tell, and I find various things she posts to be of interest. Ultimately if you disagree you're welcome to make your own threads on issues/topics that interest you, then if others wish they can contribute to them. I've made numerous threads myself, sometimes they get a lot of responses, sometimes they get a lot of views and no responses, is just the way it goes.

God Bless you all
I've asked David to step in. Busy weekend though. it will probably be after Easter. He can help me with a poll or whatever needs to be done.
 
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Silvio, don't start that when you & our friend could not even address honest questions in the Pub. This thread is supposed to resolve issues. Not bring others up.

Seriously, give it a rest.

You asked for honest, constructive feedback and all you've done is throw your toys out of the crib.

Now you say some people enjoy your spam links. You have the option of pm'ing them to the handful of people who want to read them.

You came up with a spurious excuse that your spam links contribute to activity.

Out of your last 50 link thread, how many have gone passed the 10 post mark..?
 
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That's 700+ threads a year, enough to keep you still solidly in 1st place as thread-starters.



I don't think anyone who's every had to deal with staff here wants more management meddling.

People create caricatures of themselves, they don't need my help.

I like the idea of having one thread per topic too. Have a gay marriage spam thread, a Catholic blogger spam thread and a news-other spam thread. We can call them spam cans and you can keep them full and at the top.
That's an idea. People could scan those & decide if they want to bring a topic out for discussion?

Barring that, I'm think 5 threads in main & 5 in politics.

My concern is getting the edification threads in.
 
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Seriously, give it a rest.

You asked for honest, constructive feedback and all you've done is throw your toys out of the crib.

Now you say some people enjoy your spam links. You have the option of pm'ing them to the handful of people who want to read them.

You came up with a spurious excuse that your spam links contribute to activity.

Out of your last 50 link thread, how many have gone passed the 10 post mark..?
Silvio, does it matter? If you are here to fight with nothing else to contribute then leave it at that. You are the one attacking Liz for having a different opinion than you. It happens.
 
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That's an idea. People could scan those & decide if they want to bring a topic out for discussion?

Barring that, I'm think 5 threads in main & 5 in politics.

My concern is getting the edification threads in.

5
Gays and sex and things.
Obama is evil.
Life - abortion,death penalty, war.
Opinion pieces.
Edification.
 
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Also, you state that a reason for your spam threads is to cut down in-fighting and snark. You might consider how we'll that's been working.
I did not say that. I said it gives people something to read besides snarky arguments. How do you feel about my last suggestion?
 
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5
Gays and sex and things.
Obama is evil.
Life - abortion,death penalty, war.
Opinion pieces.
Edification.
You are projecting again. Do you want to choose the sources too? I offered that in the OP after all.
 
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Silvio, does it matter? If you are here to fight with nothing else to contribute then leave it at that. You are the one attacking Liz for having a different opinion than you. It happens.

You're some cookie, Michie.

Fact is the vast majority of your spam threads never get passed the very modest 10 post mark. So, for all your claims that they promote activity, the reality is quite different.

In fact I daresay when some come into OBOB and see it sprawled with your link threads they leave within seconds.

Is this me fighting? Or is your defensive reaction seeing it as fighting?

You are the one who opened this can of worms and now that the lid is off it might not be so easily closed again...
 
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