So I have a Blind/Double Date this Saturday...

[anwabe89]

So my friends gf invited me to a double date with her friend and also her bf who is my good friend. From what she said she sounds perfect... 5ft blond hair blue eyes and size zero (petite) which is like my dream girl lol! she also went to a christian school for high school! All the signs so far are perfect.. But i just want to know what happens if things arent what i hoped? do I just have fun anyways and possibly lead her on or just sorta blow her off? lol idk i just worry about those type of things... I have been praying since they told me about it so im hoping God is show me my S.O. but idk just want advice on what i should do... and things to say to her since im not too smooth... lol atleast i dont think i am? but any who wish me luck as well!!!

 

[Riot Riot Riot]

If you're not into her, I highly do not suggest leading her on as that will only hurt her in the end. Also, don't just drop her and never talk to her again. That's just rude.

If you don't see any potential for a relationship, but she turns out to be someone you can easily be friends with, nothing wrong with that.

Good luck on the date!

 

[anwabe89]

good advice haha thank you!!!! im excited! first blind date! lol

 

[Riot Riot Riot]

good advice haha thank you!!!! im excited! first blind date! lol

If it's any consolation, I'm sure she'll be just as nervous as you are. So don't be too hard on yourself.

I know I'd be a complete nervous wreck if someone set me up on a blind date.

 

[anwabe89]

haha well it sucks she told me so early in the week!!! its driving me nuts! haha

 

[Riot Riot Riot]

haha well it sucks she told me so early in the week!!! its driving me nuts! haha

Haha, well I'd say: "Calm down, it'll all be okay. Don't stress."
But... if I were in the same shoes as you, I'd probably be totally freaking out as well.

 

[anwabe89]

yeah its only getting worse the closer it comes to saturday!

 

[Pompa Mike]

If it's any consolation, I'm sure she'll be just as nervous as you are. So don't be too hard on yourself.

I know I'd be a complete nervous wreck if someone set me up on a blind date.

This thread got me nervous and I'm not even going.

 

[Riot Riot Riot]

This thread got me nervous and I'm not even going.

I know, right?

Although, I have to admit. I'm a very shy person, so when it comes to meeting anyone I have an interest in, I become one of 2 things: I either 1) don't talk much at all or 2) don't shut up!!
It's quite embarassing.

 

[UnionJack]

Tell us how it goes

 

[anwabe89]

haha man o man Im nervous! She seen a pic of me and is still wanting to do this sat. so i guess thats a good sign! haha. I will def. keep you posted on how it goes! Lets just say this if it all goes well sat. im gunna ask her to come to my soccer game on sunday with the same people that are going on the double date with me ha!

If i can tell we are both into each other... how should I end the day?? do I get her number? do i talk to her alone and plan another date? Need help with this situation!

 

[Revived]

If i can tell we are both into each other... how should I end the day?? do I get her number? do i talk to her alone and plan another date? Need help with this situation!

Either way, offer to lead a prayer and a thank you to God for the opportunity.

 

[Pompa Mike]

I'd say end the day with no more than a hug, Maybe a kiss on the cheek, oh heck yes get her number, talk to her anywhere you can. I'm getting all excited for you and I don't even know you. This is pretty cool. When and if I ever go on a date again I'm going to need help too. Hey check and see if she has a sister, mid 40's through mid 50's.... Did I go too far with the sister thing?

 

[MacFall]

Remember: "Beano before, quiet after."

 

[Pompa Mike]

Remember: "Beano before, quiet after."

LOL, oh that's so wrong! poor guy is freaking out and now he's going to be worried about that.

 

[catzrfluffy]

Hey check and see if she has a sister,

Why do guys ask that? I'm paranoid now

 

[MacFall]

LOL, oh that's so wrong! poor guy is freaking out and now he's going to be worried about that.

Whaaaaat, it's practical advice.

 

[MacFall]

Why do guys ask that?

Because if she does, then maybe they can hook her up with one of us guys. In theory.

 

[Pompa Mike]

Why do guys ask that? I'm paranoid now

It's an old saying, When a guy has a nice girlfriend someone will ask if she has a sister because if she does there's a possibility that the sister would be nice too. It's kind of a round about compliment saying that the guy is lucky. I remember my dad singing a song when I was little and one of the lines was, "please tell me mister does she have a sister."

 

[Pompa Mike]

Whaaaaat, it's practical advice.

yes, practical, reasonable and by golly I think he should follow it.