So hard...yet not sure

[nessa]

It has been over a year now since my miscarriage, but i still feel like it was yesterday. I just found out that i am pregnant again..and i am so scared that it is going to happen again. I don't know what to do. Should i be happy? Scared? i don't know what to do anymore.

I am not trying to brag by saying that i am pregnant...but i am just so scared that i am going to miscarry again. How do i get this fear out of my head?

~Nessa

 

[VioletLady]

Hello sweetheart. How are you today?

Do you know, I wrote to really long post to you this morning, and what do you know - we had a power cut

Never mind. I just wanted to send you a great big hug, say congratulations for your news! and...honey...please try not to worry too much, it's not good for you or your baby. It's so natural to be worried, especially after a miscarriage. I fell pregnant with my son three months after my miscarriage (he's 13 and taller than me now!)

It's more important than ever that you take care of yourself now.

Blessings,

Love from Violet xxxx

 

[Kristen.NewCreation]

Hi Nessa,

Take it one day at a time hon. Try not to borrow from the future. Focus on now and taking care of you and your child. It's natural to be concerned and worried after going through a miscarriage already. I also agree with Violet. It's important to relax as much as possible. Stress isn't good for you or your baby.