fadedglory, I know EXACTLY how you feel... EXACTLY how you feel
I went through all of that this past year... it hurt so much, because I wanted someone sooooo bad, and I liked this girl sooo much (from church, too), I was willing to cut my arms and try to kill myself, because not only did I like her, but she was completely uninterested in me.
but you know what?... God had other plans. God had much, much better plans than I could ever possibly imagine. and right now, know that God loves you enough, and He knows, right now, that for you and me... we're not ready yet.
I still have yet to see someone for me in my life, but I've been digging into His Word, and that want for for a companion is going away... I still have feelings for that girl, but I'm staying away from her, because I know that's not what I need in my life... what I need right now in my life is His Word of Truth
I want you to know, fadedglory, that I'm 25, and I have never had a girlfriend. Ever.
it's tough, especially when you sit across the table at a restaurant and see two of your friends pair up... but I guarantee you, FG, you're not alone
I'm right there with you, going through the exact same thing, and I feel you with all of my heart
my advice?... seek Him out. As much as I'm right there with you, He's tghere for you more than I ever could, and He knows exactly how to handle this situation
it's wonderful to have such and incredible Father who knows exactly what we need at the right time so that we can get the most out of that situation, and gain a closer relationship with Him.
you are my sister in Christ, and I truly do care about you... The ast thign i would ever want you to do is hurt yourself, and I know 110% that God doesn't want you to hurt yourself either... I'll be honest, this year has been the toughest, because it hit me so hard at the beginning of the year, but now, after spending my time with the Lord, He's given me a passion for something else... he may give me someone later in my life, He may not... either way, He knows what's best for me, and I put my faith in Him, because He loves me more than any other person could
and you want to know the awesome thing?...
He loves you just as much
He's always goign to be there for you, no matter where you are in your life, and no matter what you're going through.
Hang in there, FG... please hang in there
I know its hard, I truly do, btu I want you to know that if God can put it within me to come out of it, I know you can do it as well
if you need a friend, I'll gladly be a friend to you... I love you, and I'm praying for you, and I know beyodn a shadow of a doubt that if you put your faith, love, and trust in Him, He will guide you through, and give you a new and beautiful outlook on life.
