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Lena75

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My dad smoked around us kids. He still does, but takes it outside now. My brother has now adopted that rotten habit and has even "attempted" to quit. I remember when our 2nd son was smaller and my 2 nephews would stand around grandpa and imitate him. Boy, did us girls become upset. So they would ask grandma, why does grandpa smoke? Grandma would say, you'd have to ask grandpa. So I don't know if dad did explain. Now the boys are older, it's a bit easier to explain things. Like what smoking can really do to you.
 
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I use to have a cigar once in a while at home but when my daughter was born that stopped. Actually before she was born.

Now I am still trying to kick the habit but have never let my daughter see me smoke (and never will). I would never want my daughter to learn about smoking or pick it up because of me.

... now I really want to quit ...
 
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