... I am seriously wondering if I should say something in here, or to just let this dead horse lie on the ground. By the heatedness that this discussion has caused on both sides, this issue appears to be one that has much confusion and much things to be said on both sides.
I agree with the point that angeleyes21 brought up in that a lot of the times, the pastor is afraid of offending members of their congregations. And why wouldn't they be? Just a little while ago, the United Church in Canada decided to unionize... yes, you did just read that correctly. Pastors are treated so poorly and their congregations are often run by spiritual infants to the point where they DO fear for their job security... Also considering that the average lifespan of a Canadian pastor before he is burned out, not just out of ministry, but sometimes out of the faith as well, is 5 years... That is definitely a sobering thought to think about.
I would also point out that it is not because certain sins are not shouted about that our culture has gone to the dogs. Rather, there are more significant factors at play here... Even if the church were to start shouting brimstone against certain evils, it must also pay attention to other evils as well... For as sinful as sexual immorality in all of its forms may be, it is only really one area of sin, and further consequences of a world that won't listen to us anyway... I say this not because I have given up on the world. If that were the case, I would not be a fool-hardy young man who has a calling burning so strongly in my bones it's undeniable... But rather, I am saying this as an actuality... Christians are called to be salt - which is a minimal ingredient at best... IT may almost be better for Christianity that these events are happening in our world that are testing us to our very roots...
I found an earlier comment that demons attend church also very interesting... and amusing... I wonder which churches they would frequent... If that is the case, which I wouldn't doubt... as there are hundreds who attend church every week but do not understand the Gospel of the Kingdom... in fact, I doubt they have even heard it... But what is our responsibility? I would say it is to preach the whole truth, and to LIVE in such a way that those who see may proclaim us as true witnesses.
What urks me is Christians who think that simply bashing one or two choice verses down people's throats in order to guilt them into saying some prayer, or treat them like projects, then they live in such a way that denies the very Jesus that they claim to be proclaiming... The problem isn't necessarily in the lack of preaching, as there is lots of that. The problem is in the lack of living, and a general lack of integrity...
We have identified some problems in this thread... the problems of specific sins, namely that of D&R-M (divorce and remarriage), Homosexuality, and weak witness of the church in the world. Since we have named at least part of the problem (or maybe just a symptom of a deeper issue, that is the real problem, and attacking these would only put a bandaid on a gaping wound), how can we go about solving it?
One suggestion is to preach hellfire and damnation, and to insist that anyone who breaks the law of God is to be condemned... Okay... It does follow some scriptural principles... Now, in order to prevent anyone from breaking these laws, let's put hedge rules around each of these... In order to keep people from lusting after one another, we will make pink and blue sidewalks... men are only allowed on the blue, and women are only allowed walking on the pink. Among our youth, we will enforce a 9:00 pm curfew, where they will have to appear for inspection at our residential schools, because the home is too broken to do anything about it. In order to prevent alcoholic consumption, we will provide only water or milk, as everything else can ferment if given the right conditions, and we definitely do not want that... And, in order to not break the rules to honour the Lord's Day, we will make it that all power is to be turned off at precisely 10:30 every Saturday evening, except for radios, which will be battery powered, and Church programs will be the only stuff made available. And, because we aren't allowed to work, we can only allow 1000 steps on the Lord's day. Anything more would be work...
((I'll add more later... gotta run))