AngelusSax said:
It's not that we want to sin. It's that we do, and beating people over the head with condemnation is the quickest way to make them not care anymore... unless we're really good at just scaring them into submission of how we see things.
I wasn't going to post on this topic anymore because I don't want to beat a dead horse, but this is really heavy on my heart right now. In fact, I am working on a message that covers this very topic.
I am reading the book
Speaking my Mind by noted sociologist, author, and preacher Tony Campolo. In this book, Tony discusses many of the controversioal topics that the church of Jesus is facing today. Last night I read the story that Tony tells of a friend of his that pastored a small inner-city church. This pastor received a call from the local funeral home one day. The funeral director asked this pastor to preach a funeral for a man who had died of AIDS. The director had called a lot of other preacher, but all turned him down, and the funeral was that afternoon. The pastor agreed to do it, and that afternoon he preached at this gay man's funeral. The funeral was attended almost entirely by gay men. After the service, they all went to the cemetary and the pastor spoke at the graveside. After the casket was lowered, and the dirt being piled on, the pastor turned to leave. He realized that all of the gay men were still standing silently at the gravesite. He asked if there was anything that he could do for them before he left. One of the men asked, "Can you read the 23rd Psalm? I was looking forward to hearing that verse, and you didn't read it." So the pastor read the 23rd Psalm. After that, another gay man asked him to read from the 8th chapter of Romans, where Paul tells us that
nothing shall be able to separate us from God's love which is in Christ Jesus. That broke the silence. That pastor stood there for the next hour reading and discussion scripture with that group of gay men.
My heart hurt when I read this story. Here were a group of men that were thirsting for the Word, but would never set foot in a church because they feel (sometimes rightfully so) that the church despises them.
As I said, we can hate the sin, but
we must love the sinner. People matter to God, and therefore they should matter to us. We have tried to beat people over the head with theology, and we have chased many away from the church. They thirst, but they cannot find a way to quench that thirst. I try to reach out in a way that they have never seen, and I know that the Holy Spirit will work through that.
Sorry for the rant, but I had to get that off my chest before I explode.