1Here is a trustworthy saying: If anyone sets his heart on being an overseer, he desires a noble task. Now the overseer must be above reproach, the husband of but one wife, temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, 3not given to drunkenness, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money. 4He must manage his own family well and see that his children obey him with proper respect. 5(If anyone does not know how to manage his own family, how can he take care of God's church?)1 Tim 3:1-5
Actually that is reading more into the text of 1Tim. 3:4 than is there. There is no implicit denial of a single person serving as an elder or bishop implied at all.
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So lets put it all together: According to Paul, the overseer must be a husband, and not just that, he must be a father. He doesn't say "If he is married", no he uses infatic language here. He must be married to fulfill this obligation, so that his house hold can be judged. "(If anyone does not know how to manage his own family, how can he take care of God's church?)"
This is not implicit denial, it is explicit denial.
Here is exactly what Paul says.That's interesting, isn't it, especially since Paul preferred that people who wanted to serve the Lord should remain single.
Your trying to connect, what is not connected in scripture. I never said single people cannot serve God, they just do not meet Paul's criterion for an Overseer. That is not in and of itself a bad thing. We all have different roles to play in the church.32I would like you to be free from concern. An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord's affairshow he can please the Lord. 33But a married man is concerned about the affairs of this worldhow he can please his wife 34and his interests are divided. An unmarried woman or virgin is concerned about the Lord's affairs: Her aim is to be devoted to the Lord in both body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the affairs of this worldhow she can please her husband. 35I am saying this for your own good, not to restrict you, but that you may live in a right way in undivided devotion to the Lord.-1 Corinthians 7:32-35
God Bless,
Robert