Single and looking

[JennyPenny901]

Hey I'm Jenny and I'm a Christian with Asperger's who is single. For a while I've wanted to be single and enjoyed being single but now at 28 years old 29 in September I want to experience dating. I'm not saying I need a husband now or I'll keel over or if I don't date anyone and stay single my life is over no not saying that at all. I'm saying I'm now open to dating but if I stay single I'll still be happy. I'm looking for a mature Christian man and when I say mature not only do I mean up to 2 or 3 years older then me (I'm attracted to older men) but also a man who has been a Christian a while and knows what he believes and why he believes and stands firm in the faith regularly reads his Bible and goes to Church and prays. He must also have a sense of humor I as I have a sense of humor and I can be very much a cheeky wisecracker when I want to be. It would also be nice if he is a bookworm as I'm an avid reader and it would be nice to share that with someone. I hope I'm not being to picky but I am a hopeless romantic and so I'm looking for a man who is romantic and chivalrous. So that's about it. Sometimes I wonder if I am being to picky. I also wonder where would be a good place to find a relationship a Church doesn't seem the correct place for that. I certainly don't wanna look in a bar that's not wise. My current Church is a new Church plant so it doesn't yet have a group for singles plus I've noticed with groups for Church singles it's just ladies who are 80 and older. Wise ladies that I learned a lot from but the reason I went is to find a man to have a relationship with. Maybe GOD wants me to be single and that's fine but I don't know if that's what He wants or not so here I am.

 

[Swan7]

Hey, Jenny Welcome to CF! I hope your stay here is welcomed and fellowship found.
While this is not a dating site, there are plenty of places to get to know people here, especially in Singles!

I highly suggest continuing in building that relationship with God (not that you don't have it already, just keep building) and of course, praying for one He has in mind for you. I don't know what He has planned for you, but always keep your eyes on Him. I do hope this helps!

 

[NOTWHATIWAS]

Hey I'm Jenny and I'm a Christian with Asperger's who is single. For a while I've wanted to be single and enjoyed being single but now at 28 years old 29 in September I want to experience dating. I'm not saying I need a husband now or I'll keel over or if I don't date anyone and stay single my life is over no not saying that at all. I'm saying I'm now open to dating but if I stay single I'll still be happy. I'm looking for a mature Christian man and when I say mature not only do I mean up to 2 or 3 years older then me (I'm attracted to older men) but also a man who has been a Christian a while and knows what he believes and why he believes and stands firm in the faith regularly reads his Bible and goes to Church and prays. He must also have a sense of humor I as I have a sense of humor and I can be very much a cheeky wisecracker when I want to be. It would also be nice if he is a bookworm as I'm an avid reader and it would be nice to share that with someone. I hope I'm not being to picky but I am a hopeless romantic and so I'm looking for a man who is romantic and chivalrous. So that's about it. Sometimes I wonder if I am being to picky. I also wonder where would be a good place to find a relationship a Church doesn't seem the correct place for that. I certainly don't wanna look in a bar that's not wise. My current Church is a new Church plant so it doesn't yet have a group for singles plus I've noticed with groups for Church singles it's just ladies who are 80 and older. Wise ladies that I learned a lot from but the reason I went is to find a man to have a relationship with. Maybe GOD wants me to be single and that's fine but I don't know if that's what He wants or not so here I am.

I have a 25 year old daughter, also w/ Asperger's. She too is praying for a husband. I will start praying for both of you.

 

[Eannie Soul]

Its quite interesting to read what you needed and how are you going to do this.
Here's something I might think would help you find one.
Please take some time out and answer these questions:
WOULD HE MAKE A GOOD HUSBAND FOR ME?
CHARACTER BASICS
How does he handle any authority he may have? - Matthew 20:25,26.
What are his goals? - 1 Timothy 4:15.
Is he now working toward those goals? - 1 Corinthians 9:26,27.
How does he treat his family? - Exodus 20:12.
Who are his friends? - Proverbs 13:20
What does he talk about? - Luke 6:45
What is his attitude toward money? - Hebrews 13:5,6
What type of entertainment does he enjoy? - Psalm 97:10
How does he demonstrate his love for God Almighty? - 1 John 5:3

ASSETS
Is he industrious? - Proverbs 6:9-11
Is he financially responsible? - Luke 14:28
Is he well reported on? - Acts 16:1,2
Is he considerate of others? - Philippians 2:4

DANGER SIGNS
Is he disposed to anger? - Proverbs 22:24
Does he try to involve you in sexual misconduct? - Galatians 5:19
Is he physically or verbally abusive? - Ephesians 4:31
Does he need to use alcohol to have a good time? - Proverbs 20:1
Is he jealous and self-centered? - 1 Corinthians 13:4,5

NOW, HAS ANYBODY FOUND ONE YET?
IF YOU HAVE, PRAISE THE LORD FOR HE IS AWESOME!!!