hmmm.... God saved my life through a "fleece"...
it was a drab, dull day. up here we get "white skies" many, many days a year, and on this day it was even darker, more of a grey. very dense cloud cover. i dont think we'd seen the sky for a few days. i was walking to a bridge to throw myself off of it, i was extrememly depressed and as a baby christian, vulnerable, not grounded yet in His strength... i said something like, oh, God, i am gonna do this, Lord, if you dont want me to do this, your gonna have to do something, give me a sign, give me strength.... stuff like that. and as soon as i said it, the sky broken open and sunlight came streaming down on me, just a patch that hit the highway about 100 yards in either direction of me. i felt God's Son shining on me, and i had strength and i turned away. and today i am here.
i fleece in a minor way alot. yesterday, i had to put my cat down due to aggressive behaviour... i really didnt want to go in to work, and my friend said that she thought i needed a day off (my cat was very dear to me). but i know my boss is kinda like, no, you're ok, come in to work. so me and my friend asked the Lord to give my boss the discernment to do His will, as to whether i should work or not. so i went to see her, and she said, oh, you need a normal day, no you come into work. and i accepted that as being from God. and i had a good day at work.
if i ask for bread, will he give me a stone?
as for the shooting star / divorce situation... who's to say the difficult, painful marriage and divorce were not for her growth? doenst God work all things according to the purpose of His will? the flesh does the manuring, but God uses it in His compost. God does sometimes ask us to do things that fail.
that said, fleecing must be done with the right heart attitude... a "spontaneous" kind of fleece like my bridge story BUILDS FAITH. and planned fleece, like my story about going in to work, need to be done from a PLACE OF FAITH - that God works all things according to the purpose of his will, and that he doesnt give a stone instead of a loaf of bread. AND it must be spirit lead, not methodical, or it becomes more like sorcery. its needs to be an "i will accept what you bring into this situation, Lord", and not like asking a magic 8 ball to give a yes or a no answer...
we just have to tread carefully, is all.... not out of fear of being misdirected by the enemy when we are asking of God, but of asking the enemy instead of God... its all a matter of where our hearts are at.
anyways, just some of my thoughts.....