Shy about Breasts

[Clement of Alexandria]

I find myself very self-conscious about women's breasts. I get very timid around women because I fear that if I relax, I might stare at their breasts and might be humiliated or treated cruelly. I wish I didn't get so shy, and I wish I was more happy and relaxed.

I guess I am just obsessed with breasts. I like them, but they make me scared. I don't quite know what to do to get rid of this neurotic anxiety. Perhaps I should practice staring until I get busted and don't feel so frightened at the thought of embarassment? Perhaps I should get a girlfriend and get a lot of intense exposure therapy? What kind of exposure therapy would help best?

I'm stumped. Anybody have a suggestion?

 

[tomwhodson]

We all get nervous about women all the time. And we all have our own problems with women with yours being breasts. I think that maybe if you spent some time with women that you feel comfortable with and then move yourself up to those who you arn't comfortable with.

 

[dvd_holc]

Concentrate on their eyes and pay attention to what they say. Looking at breast is reducing that precious creation of God's into a object. You and that girl are worth so much more then the temporary desire of sex. See breast, touching breast, or whatever does not sustain your existence. I suggest that when you think of a sexual desire that maybe you should try singing a song instead.

 

[Anti Existance]

I think you also have to relax that its natural to be attracted to woman and that its all a part of Gods plan, as long as you really love the soul thats inside that body then its no problem, its what makes you a man and not some alien who could care less.

 

[Annoula]

it's very natural for a young man to be interested in women's breasts.
it's the unknown and he is curisous about them .

maybe you should read some information about the anatomy of the female body, from a scientific point of view. you will understand the role and the function of the female body better and it will not look so strange anymore.

 

[Johnnz]

Most guys are very attracted to female breasts. Just relax more. You are not unusual. There are plenty of women who don't mind that interest either, and can enjoy the attention.

Perhaps you are uncomfortable with your sexuality, and need to think through a few issues about what it means to be a sexual person. We all need to be at ease with this important aspect of our humanness.

PM me if you have any specific persoanl questions.

John
NZ

 

[The-Doctor]

Men do look at womens breasts this is perfectly normal. You might find the more you try not to look the more you do so just relax and be yourself. It may be you are just not that confident around women, try spending some time with them.