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Hmmm, I have looked, sometimes its hard not to like when I was in Boot Camp. Like someone else posted earlier, with 50+ guys naked, you cant miss it.

Was I comparing? Yes...I was curious how I "stacked up" I suppose. I mean, doesn't a woman look at another womans breasts to compare theirs with others? If you say you don't, your lying to yourself. We are all curios about our bodies. Its natural.

In NO WAY am I suggesting anyone is doing this for sexual reasons, but indeed we are curious. And thats ok.

Just try NOT to get busted while looking, hehe. :)
 
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I've never been one to shower in public, so I guess no (I'd be too shy to peek anyway). But I know for a fact that other men do peek . . . not stare, but peek. Women can talk about things more openly than men can because we are taught to be ashamed of our bodies (face it, it's true . . . teen girls can talk about bras, breast size, and tampons--and get the talk with mom. . . boys are left out in the cold about themselves). So the only way we can compare ourselves or see if we're normal is to peek. Again, I could never bring myself to do it, but I don't think a boy or a man is abnormal for being curious about others.
 
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