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I think the question begs to be asked - in what way are you asking the question? I'm sure everyone has peeked at another man while showering at one time or another - its hard not too - When I was in Boot Camp - you had 50 men showering at one time - with 50 bodies walking around naked its hard not to look... Its a whole different question if your asking if we peek at another man for sexual purposes... there again - I'm sure most men would have to admit even in thier own minds that they have peeked at least once......

its not really sick to ask the question if your truely curious what other may think - it could be sick if yoru just trying to get your jollies off other responses... I'm sure most women wonder if guys peek - just about as much as men wonder if women peek... When I was in High school - we were practically made to shower with others - now kids don't have to shower or even undress in front of others.. I know both My daughters are so embaressed when other females undress in front of them.. Believe Me - its done often when you play soccer year round.. It embaresses Me most of the time the way some girls show no modesty...
 
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Not really but if I do it would be out of curiosity like looking at different cars or comparing physical structures to see if there is something I see in them I would like to work on, like building the shoulders or legs or something. For the most part its a non-issue and most of the time many people are an eyesore to look at naked so I prefer not to. Women, on the other hand, would catch my eye a bit quicker though. What is the reason you are asking?
 
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Again, we are still wondering why you ask and why would this be posted on the "marriage" forum? But since we are on the subject, 99% of men are all the same size or close enough that it wouldn't catch anyone's attention, unlike breasts on a woman. Most are all the same or similar size "deflated," and if one is "undeflated" in a shower with other men, I would at least be running for the door, lol.
 
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She is probably asking because - women do compare themselves to other women - they compare their body parts.

So momof2boys probably is curious to know if me look and compare themselves to other men.

With men - it might not be so much of looking at other mens "organ" as it might be the overall "physique" ie.. muscle tone - six pack abs, etcc.

Whereas women "look" an compare, thier breasts, thighs, stomach, butt etc.. to other women.

I think the question is not "sick" - the poster was just curiious if men do the same as women.
 
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momof2boys said:
Sorry guys I tried to post something in the men corner but it says only men are allowed to post .

a few of us have a question

When showering or getting dressed , have you sneaked a peek at another man ?
No. Do you?
 
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momof2boys said:
Sorry guys I tried to post something in the men corner but it says only men are allowed to post .

a few of us have a question

When showering or getting dressed , have you sneaked a peek at another man ?
It was a very disconcerting thing the first year in the locker room ....
boys use a common shower , what you got or don't got is right there
in front of your whole class : flab , hair on your back , the whole 9 yards...
 
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