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kevlite2020

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Thanks for taking the time to post this , I know I definately need to work on my confidance its always been low and i'm trying but its not easy .Honestly I know I am good enough and I have alot of great things to offer some guy one day and I truly know it'll happen just not in my timing .For me I am more beautiful on the inside then the outside and I never really truly had a boyfriend or any guy like that only one and he turned out to be a player and really broke my heart.So yes some days when I am feeling really low and I do lose hope that'll happen and I'm sorry if I am complaining to much I guess I dont realize I am doing it more so I am just venting .Anyways have a nice day everyone!

Hey Jess, I'm not faulting you for venting or anything. I just want the best for you, okay? I don't want you to have those moments where you lose hope. Feeling sad is such a burden, it's so much more of a burden when feeling sad for no real reason. And you don't have any reason to think you aren't special or worth dating or that you'll never find anyone.
 
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I just like to tell you something PAPER. Yeah. I'm looking at you. I don't like that you don't want to finished. I have said what I needed to say. Why are you asking me more questions? You wont let me off the hock so that I can start on human subjects. I gave you enough pages and some brilliant content. Just leave me alone.



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Really wanted to use this simile for so long.





Oh, this reminds me.

I like to tell Im_A- I won on saturday (or was it sunday). Deal with it!
 
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I'm glad you guys realize the truth about yourselves then :) It's just depressing to me when I see y'all post stuff like ohhhhhhh my crush doesn't even notice me, I don't even want to like anyone, Nobody is ever going to feel that way about me. And I know I'm exaggerating, but I see that tone coming from y'all sometimes and it hurts me to see it, because I want y'all to be happy and see the good in yourselves, and even if you are getting passed up by some, letting it affect your emotions and your feelings about yourselves would be a shame.

I have plenty of girls pass me up, all the time, and I go unnoticed a lot. All I do is I recognize it, and I move on with my life. If I alllow my happiness to be dictated by other people's thoughts on me, or lack of thoughts on me, I would crawl in a hole and never come out. Your worth and value comes from God, not from man. So keep heart, don't bemoan your situation, God is still in control!


Thanks Kevin. I know what I need to do I just need to do it.

I need to get refocused on God and stop worrying about guys.
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To my boss:
I think you are great at what you do and I appreciate the chance you took on hiring me but for the record- when you ask me if I've finished a project and I tell you no then show you my overloaded to do page and then you proceed to ask me if I have time to build a relational database that we can cross reference and link thousands of products to thousands of trigger words. Well, I would like to say thanks for giving me the opportunity to work on controlling my tongue.

To Kevin:
Great job on speaking the truth in love! In this thread and all over CF.

To my shower:
You are the only thing that has heard me sing at the top of my voice, willingly lets me write crazy notes on you and has seen me sob. I look forward to many years of a successful relationship :p

To every woman who is graceful in heels higher than an inch:
You fascinate me and I wish I could be like you

Wow, I feel so much better for saying all those things LOL :D
 
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to my coffee cup: so full of joy. liquidy warm creamy goodness. oh how i adore thee.

to all of the women here in the singles CF forum: you already possess the single most attractive and important quality - you seek the LORD with your heart. you have beauty beyond your comprehension because you are beautiful to Him. if a man doesnt give you attention or passes you by, he's obviously not a man that you should want attention from. you deserve the best. *hug*

to kev: browns = ahahahahahaha.
.....that's all.
 
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To Kevin:
Great job on speaking the truth in love! In this thread and all over CF.
Yes, Kev, THANK YOU! Every woman needs to hear those words every once in a while. You're sweet. :)
To every woman who is graceful in heels higher than an inch:
You fascinate me and I wish I could be like you
Haha, they're really not that hard! I never started wearing high-heels until this year and I'm already up to 4 inches (not a lot, but it's something!) Practice makes perfect, and remember: Heel-toe, heel-toe!! ^_^
to kev: browns = ahahahahahaha.
.....that's all.
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Yes, Kev, THANK YOU! Every woman needs to hear those words every once in a while. You're sweet. :)

Haha, they're really not that hard! I never started wearing high-heels until this year and I'm already up to 4 inches (not a lot, but it's something!) Practice makes perfect, and remember: Heel-toe, heel-toe!! ^_^

:sput::muahah:

Define "a lot" then, lol. Four inches is fairly high.
 
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Define "a lot" then, lol. Four inches is fairly high.
Uhmmm... 6? Haha, I doubt I'll ever get there though. But it's nice to dream. LOL!

To the lady who interviewed me Monday: I dearly hope you call back. It's so hard to be optimistic without getting my hopes up. I've had my hopes crushed so many times in my life, so I'm trying not to with this.... but I'm trying to stay optimistic!! :(
 
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Haha, they're really not that hard! I never started wearing high-heels until this year and I'm already up to 4 inches (not a lot, but it's something!) Practice makes perfect, and remember: Heel-toe, heel-toe!! ^_^


haha i was working for the elton ballet this past weekend which meant there were drag queens in the show. Men dancing in stiletos. I was both jealous and in awe. *I* can't even move in heels the way those men did :p

although that being said, i'm not exactly the most graceful tigress in the world either :sorry:
 
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This shout out is for White Dove!


HIIIIIIIIII.

I've been trying to send you a pm for the last....days, but it wont let me, and I can't write on your profile to ask you how you are doing and how the little one is doing?:bigeye:


*Huggies*

No not the diapers...just hugs with a lot of "eeee you are sooo cuttiee*




I make no sense.
 
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Haha, they're really not that hard! I never started wearing high-heels until this year and I'm already up to 4 inches (not a lot, but it's something!) Practice makes perfect, and remember: Heel-toe, heel-toe!! ^_^

:sput::muahah:

I figure that I really ruined myself early on by not wearing anything but flip-flops. It's almost impossible to wear anything else now! LOL

But Lilacs, I salute you for your high heeled talent!
 
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Uhmmm... 6? Haha, I doubt I'll ever get there though. But it's nice to dream. LOL!

To the lady who interviewed me Monday: I dearly hope you call back. It's so hard to be optimistic without getting my hopes up. I've had my hopes crushed so many times in my life, so I'm trying not to with this.... but I'm trying to stay optimistic!! :(

Lol, I felt the need to measure my highest heels just now, and they're 5 inches. No way I could do 6. The others already hurt my feet. Besides, at 5'7", once I start to wear heels that are too high, I make the guys around me seem short. ^_^

On a serious note, I hope everything works out for you, and you are able to find a job soon. :)
 
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Thank you ladies for your kind words :)

Ampbelle - I can't wait till the browns win the superbowl and you'll be all like "maaaaaaan I want to join the bandwagon" and I'll be all like "remember what you had to say about them before? Sorry we don't need fans like you" and you'll be all " :( :cry: "

Also, high heels suck for short guys like me. Date me and you won't ever have to worry about wearing them and your feet hurting and all :)
 
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