Shout Outs

[Hockey_Fan]

To ampbelle,

A woman who seeks God with all her heart is the best!

 

[JasperJackson]

To ampbelle,

A woman who seeks God with all her heart is the best!

Even though I'm an infrequent CFer, I have to agree with this.

 

[Riot Riot Riot]

To someone who just made my night 10 kinds of awesome: Thanks for the many laughs!!!

 

[ampbelle3130]

To ampbelle,

A woman who seeks God with all her heart is the best!

thank you so much. *huge hug*





to 3:27am:
i have nothing against you. it's not that i dont like you. i do. really.
but...i'd rather not see you right now. it's nothing personal.

 

[Inkachu]

To everyone: stop judging a CFer by their avatar/username/signature .. look a little deeper, for crying out loud. You might be missing some truly awesome souls.

To Crystal: love ya back, cutie pie <3

To my crush: oh wait, I don't have one. I'm not good enough for anyone here. What was I thinking!!??

 

[Stravinsk]

This reminds me of the "Say Something About Someone, But Don't Mention Their Name" bit. And we all know how that one ended.. :/

I liked that thread...

 

[PeculiarTreasure]

To everyone: stop judging a CFer by their avatar/username/signature .. look a little deeper, for crying out loud. You might be missing some truly awesome souls.

To Crystal: love ya back, cutie pie <3

To my crush: oh wait, I don't have one. I'm not good enough for anyone here. What was I thinking!!??

Apparently I'm not good enough for anyone on here either m'dear.

 

[Dzhessika]

Apparently I'm not good enough for anyone on here either m'dear.

Me either , we should start our own little club!

 

[Inkachu]

To everyone: stop judging a CFer by their avatar/username/signature .. look a little deeper, for crying out loud. You might be missing some truly awesome souls.

To Crystal: love ya back, cutie pie <3

To my crush: oh wait, I don't have one. I'm not good enough for anyone here. What was I thinking!!??

Apparently I'm not good enough for anyone on here either m'dear.

Me either , we should start our own little club!

What is WRONG with these men?

 

[PeculiarTreasure]

What is WRONG with these men?

I don't know. We're too beautiful and lovely for them!

Don't hate us because we're beautiful fellows!

 

[Rhye]

Girls, what are you talking about?

I haven't been here for long, but I know that a lot of people here adore each and every one of you.

Yes, I'm looking at you Ika, Singitout and Jess!!!!!!!!!


Amp- I just want to say how much I adore your new hair color. Oh la la!!!



LOL @ "my socks don't fit" tag.

 

[Keri]

to someone: I wish you understood how bad it sometimes hurts me.

 

[kevlite2020]

To everyone: stop judging a CFer by their avatar/username/signature .. look a little deeper, for crying out loud. You might be missing some truly awesome souls.

To Crystal: love ya back, cutie pie <3

To my crush: oh wait, I don't have one. I'm not good enough for anyone here. What was I thinking!!??

Apparently I'm not good enough for anyone on here either m'dear.

Me either , we should start our own little club!

I would love to see what it would look like if y'all grew more confidence. Everyone that I know about on CF thinks all 3 of you are really great girls, amazing personalities, wonderful hearts for God, different features that make you all physically attractive. You are all loved, and all worthy of being pursued by great guys. But if I can just be flat out honest, it makes it hard to pursue a girl who keeps saying "I'm not good enough, I'll never be in love, blaaaaaaaah." Because it seems like y'all really believe that, and are even trying to convince us of it.

So I just want to encourage you 3. You all have plenty to offer, but if you keep complaining that you have nothing to offer and you'll never get a man and what not, if that is how you continue to think, it'll probably happen the way you think it out. If you start thinking what the reality is, that you are amazing women, and that you will be a blessing in a man's life, I'll bet you that's what will eventually happen.

 

[Inkachu]

Thanks for the encouragement, Kev. FTR, my confidence is not the issue. I'm very confident and steady in myself. When I say "I'm not good enough for anyone here", I'm being sarcastic, I KNOW my worth. My frustration lies in constantly being overlooked; I won't say "rejected" because I don't throw myself at men and get shot down. Rather, they don't even see me, or if they do, they may look at me with cool "Christian" charity and proclaim me "nice", but somehow, that's all I ever am. I feel like they're afraid to really reckon with me as a woman, because I'm not a 21 year old virgin, and I might just be someone they can't ignore if they ever really knew me.

But, once again, when I start to feel all frustrated and irksome about it, I close my eyes and remember God, that He's there, He loves me, and He won't let me down.

 

[Stravinsk]

To: The Borg

I will not be assimilated.

 

[PeculiarTreasure]

Thanks for the encouragement, Kev. FTR, my confidence is not the issue. I'm very confident and steady in myself. When I say "I'm not good enough for anyone here", I'm being sarcastic, I KNOW my worth. My frustration lies in constantly being overlooked; I won't say "rejected" because I don't throw myself at men and get shot down. Rather, they don't even see me, or if they do, they may look at me with cool "Christian" charity and proclaim me "nice", but somehow, that's all I ever am.

and I might just be someone they can't ignore if they ever really knew me.

But, once again, when I start to feel all frustrated and irksome about it, I close my eyes and remember God, that He's there, He loves me, and He won't let me down.

This!

I feel exactly the same way. Guys just never see me. I'm always the "girl with the pretty face" or "great friend" but that's all I ever get.

In my personal experience guys just never take the time to really, truly get to know me.

Like Ink said though I know deep down God won't let me down.

I admit I do have days that I feel I'm not pretty, attractive or whatever but the truth is there deep inside of me.

 

[Tamara224]

To S: Quit playing games with my mind. Decide what you want and deal with your issues head-on. You know you have them, quit using them as an excuse.



To CF Singles: I just can't stay away from you all. Thanks for being fun and challenging.

 

[kevlite2020]

I'm glad you guys realize the truth about yourselves then It's just depressing to me when I see y'all post stuff like ohhhhhhh my crush doesn't even notice me, I don't even want to like anyone, Nobody is ever going to feel that way about me. And I know I'm exaggerating, but I see that tone coming from y'all sometimes and it hurts me to see it, because I want y'all to be happy and see the good in yourselves, and even if you are getting passed up by some, letting it affect your emotions and your feelings about yourselves would be a shame.

I have plenty of girls pass me up, all the time, and I go unnoticed a lot. All I do is I recognize it, and I move on with my life. If I alllow my happiness to be dictated by other people's thoughts on me, or lack of thoughts on me, I would crawl in a hole and never come out. Your worth and value comes from God, not from man. So keep heart, don't bemoan your situation, God is still in control!

 

[Wren]

Lilacs and Ethnog: You two are the most awesome newbies! It took me much, much longer to warm up and let loose in this place.

Inkabink, Marycita, Keri, and Kevin: Regardless of if you are old friends or newer friends, I appreciate you.

RDJ-Stop being so yummy looking. I'm uncomfortable having a crush on a married man.

Lost (the tv show)-Don't leave, I'll miss you!

 

[Dzhessika]

I would love to see what it would look like if y'all grew more confidence. Everyone that I know about on CF thinks all 3 of you are really great girls, amazing personalities, wonderful hearts for God, different features that make you all physically attractive. You are all loved, and all worthy of being pursued by great guys. But if I can just be flat out honest, it makes it hard to pursue a girl who keeps saying "I'm not good enough, I'll never be in love, blaaaaaaaah." Because it seems like y'all really believe that, and are even trying to convince us of it.

So I just want to encourage you 3. You all have plenty to offer, but if you keep complaining that you have nothing to offer and you'll never get a man and what not, if that is how you continue to think, it'll probably happen the way you think it out. If you start thinking what the reality is, that you are amazing women, and that you will be a blessing in a man's life, I'll bet you that's what will eventually happen.

Thanks for taking the time to post this , I know I definately need to work on my confidance its always been low and i'm trying but its not easy .Honestly I know I am good enough and I have alot of great things to offer some guy one day and I truly know it'll happen just not in my timing .For me I am more beautiful on the inside then the outside and I never really truly had a boyfriend or any guy like that only one and he turned out to be a player and really broke my heart.So yes some days when I am feeling really low and I do lose hope that'll happen and I'm sorry if I am complaining to much I guess I dont realize I am doing it more so I am just venting .Anyways have a nice day everyone!