Maybe if you would post those scriptures, we could discuss them.
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First, in 1 Cor, he did not say to give until it hurts, or give everything, or the last two coins, he understood working people, he said give out of extra, in the NRSV in keeping with your income as Per the NIV, or as ye prosper, KJV. Not at all a text that says not to think about ourselves too. He was very understanding and courteous.
1 Cor 16:2 On the first day of every week, each of you is to put aside and save whatever
extra you earn, so that collections need not be taken when I come.
He says in 2 Cor 8:12, not according to what we don't have, understanding people don't have, then don't give.

Consideration was gven of the giver's finances, and no doubt feelings.
12 For if the readiness is there, it is acceptable
according to what a person has, not according to what he
does not have.
In 13, he says he did not want them burdened, which he told those in both Thess letters, the same thing, where he worked, not to burden, and he wanted fairness, again consideration for the giver in mind also.
8:13 For
I do not mean that others should be eased and
you burdened, but that as a matter of
fairness
In 2 Cor 8:14, he says to give out of abundance, not lack, that is considerate, of their needs, as the givers.
14
your abundance at the present time
should supply their need, so that their abundance may supply your need, that there may be fairness.
And needless to say, for the most Part, Paul worked not to burden, or put obstacles in front of the Gospel, Timothy worked, Silas, Titus, Barnabas, Priscilla and Aquila, he showed the elders in Acts 20, they should work too, as he did.
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