should i wait.

[dobieman0488]

hey guys,l
my gf called me on thursday night and said she wanted to end it, she's stressed out with school and she may go into a study abroad program next year, getting aclimated to wisconsin has also been hard for her, and she also wnats to maybe see other guys on campus, she said that maybe if she comes back to pa in a year or two we might be able to start something up again. I don't want to break it off with her , I still love her, but wisconsin is so far away and I kind of like this friend from high school who's in one of my classes. Should i wait for her?

 

[ImperialPhantom]

No way. Not a chance. Do not.

What she did was basically tell you "Hey, um, I wanna go out with other guys, because I'm not happy with you, and I'll try to find one that's better than you. If I don't find one or if he dumps me, than I'll settle for you again, at least until I find something better". You wanna stand for that? I don't know why you would.

 

[juzzi]

I.P just hit the nail on the head right there.

 

[Blank123]

as above. besides it sounds like your eyes are also wandering if you're interested in this other friend. do both of you a favour and move on.

 

[FireOfTheCovenant]

I agree with the above posters. It may be hard right now to move on, you will thank yourself later. Especially when that "year or two" is up.

Sorry about what happened.

 

[HolyOne87]

like others say, just break it off and move forward. Give yourself time however before you start dating another girl. Wait, until you are completely ready. You don't want to dive into things too early after the breakup.
Plus with waiting, you aren't gauranteed she will come back to you. So, you could wait, and suddenly 2 years down the line when she comes back to PA she is in a relationship with another guy. Like others said, I wouldn't wait. if you find someone, go for it. Don't wait on your "ex" girlfriend.

 

[Monaleezza]

It doesn't sound as though you're struggling with an answer at all.
You're already considering someone else, so what is the problem.. go for it!
Why do you want to wait for someone who isn't waiting for you? She wants to see other people - let her. You do the same.

 

[Mrs. Luther073082]

Nope, not worth it.

 

[septemberskies]

I have to also agree with everyone above me.... she is saying "It's over" without saying and that's a real snake thing to do to someone who cares for you. You should press forward without looking back.

With all that said,you have to go with your instincts, and do what you feel is best.

 

[Weasel7711]

hey guys,l
my gf called me on thursday night and said she wanted to end it, she's stressed out with school and she may go into a study abroad program next year, getting aclimated to wisconsin has also been hard for her, and she also wnats to maybe see other guys on campus, she said that maybe if she comes back to pa in a year or two we might be able to start something up again. I don't want to break it off with her , I still love her, but wisconsin is so far away and I kind of like this friend from high school who's in one of my classes. Should i wait for her?

nope, if you both want to see other people, then see other people, at least make it a mutual thing