You can say I'm experiencing young love, but it is scaring me. I've been talking to this guy for a month, right after I promised to take God seriously. It been great and I absolutely like him. I've talked to God about it but there is always this sense of doubt in me, that he may not be the one. It feels like everywhere I go, maybe it's me, that I see something and apply it to my relationship, like posts on Instagram about "cutting people off" and "doing better". Even at church, I'm always confused when the preacher mentions a bad distraction, whether they are talking to me. This has always been a problem in all my relationships where it seems wrong, and in a way it felt wrong. However, in this relationship, although there are flaws in him, there is potential in him as well;in a way it doesn't feel like the other relationships I've been in. There are times (frequently)when we text, where are hormones get the best of us and we do tap in the lust and temptation category, but I always bring us back to reality and he does know how I'm waiting till marriage and always apologizes profusely when he steps over the boundaries. He speaks about how he wants to get closer to God, we read the bible every night together, when something bad happens he tells me to pray, and I've taken a break from him before because it felt like God was pushing me to do that and he was very supportive. I see potential in him. I don't know maybe I do already hear God's voice but I times its hard cause there is no verification. When I ask should I cut him off, It's hard to hear the answer. But then a part of me thinks maybe I'm ignoring the answer. I really like this guy and don't want to end it, but I know God knows my future and maybe he's trying to prevent heartbreak . I'm young and very confused and it seems like my walk with God is never moving forward.
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Should I really end it?
- Thread starter Lachelle
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Whenever I want to find out if a guy is right for me, I'll ask myself a few questions:
Does being around him help me to become a better person? Does being around him help bring me closer to God and help strengthen my faith in God?
If your answers to those questions is a huge yes, that means you have found the right guy.
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