Should I move on?

[Mommyhasfaith]

A few years back when I wasnt a christain this wonderful christain guy I know tried his hardest to be with me,but at the time I thought I was in love with this other guy who turned out to be not good for me. When I finally wanted to give my christain friend a chance it was too late he had basicly givin up on me.

That was about 4 years ago. Im a christain now and I keep thinking about this guy. We are still friends but we dont talk very much. I keep thinking I made such a huge mistake and I feel bad for ignoring him all those years ago.

He's still single but I feel like I missed my chance. Should I try and be up front with him about my feelings or should I move on since he doesnt act like he cares anymore?

Help? :-/

 

[liesje]

A few years back when I wasnt a christain this wonderful christain guy I know tried his hardest to be with me,but at the time I thought I was in love with this other guy who turned out to be not good for me. When I finally wanted to give my christain friend a chance it was too late he had basicly givin up on me.

That was about 4 years ago. Im a christain now and I keep thinking about this guy. We are still friends but we dont talk very much. I keep thinking I made such a huge mistake and I feel bad for ignoring him all those years ago.

He's still single but I feel like I missed my chance. Should I try and be up front with him about my feelings or should I move on since he doesnt act like he cares anymore?

Help? :-/

Hey, welcome to CF

Hmm...that's an interesting one. I'm not really sure what to say. Does this guy know you're a Christian now, and how much time do you spend together? Maybe the best thing to do would just be to try and get to know him a bit better before you decide what to do, and see how he reacts.

 

[Mommyhasfaith]

We dont really hangout,we talk on facebook once in awhile and at church on sundays but thats pretty much it. he knows im a christain now.

 

[Mommyhasfaith]

God is so amazing! I prayed about it and got the courage to a letter to him on facebook and he wants to hangout and see what happens! Ah I'm in tears!

 

[NaturallyGone]

That's so amazing! Good luck

 

[Mommyhasfaith]

Thank you! Tomorrow at church we're supposed to talk. None of this would be possible without the lord! I feel so blessed!

 

[Sadiegrl]

hope things go well, just remember to take things slowly as he may have been hurt before, but i'm sure God's hands are all over this and you'll both be a blessing to each other.

 

[Jeffersonian]

Thank you! Tomorrow at church we're supposed to talk. None of this would be possible without the lord! I feel so blessed!

 

[Mommyhasfaith]

Thank you! So far things are going wonderful,we're talking much more and Its obvious we both like eachother alot,but we are going to take things so.

God bless!

 

[SplendidTree]

Praying!

 

[Sadiegrl]

Thank you! So far things are going wonderful,we're talking much more and Its obvious we both like eachother alot,but we are going to take things so.

God bless!

Yay!

 

[Mommyhasfaith]

This guy and I are now dating! God works in amazing ways!