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I m living in Muslim country but we don't have these practice like chopping hand or so ever.

I heard some Muslim folks here beating wife but the divorce or break up rate in Muslim are really low compare to other races. Beating wife normally those Muslim guy didn't attend prayers or practice else they are quite behave.

Well, I do see good things in their religion. The Muslim girls are really really polite ..lol

Some jobless senior Christian with wonder woman character sometime is very difficult to communicate u see. I oftenly beaten by woman words. Words can b more harmful than sword or gun.

What I was attempting to show are some religions present ideas that are contrary to or against God's nature of "love".

The Bible nowhere speaks of hitting ones wife, in fact, it presents the idea of loving them.

Col 3:19 Husbands, love your wives and do not be bitter toward them.​

As I showed previously the Quran actually teaches one to hit their wife an idea that I am sure God finds abhorrent.

God does ask wives to listen to their husbands, to submit to them, but this is mutual submission, each party listening to the other, and respecting the other.

Eph 5:21-25 submitting to one another in the fear of God. Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body. Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her,​

So in a Christian relationship, neither party should feel overpowered by the other.
 
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What I was attempting to show are some religions present ideas that are contrary to or against God's nature of "love".

The Bible nowhere speaks of hitting ones wife, in fact, it presents the idea of loving them.

Col 3:19 Husbands, love your wives and do not be bitter toward them.​

As I showed previously the Quran actually teaches one to hit their wife an idea that I am sure God finds abhorrent.

God does ask wives to listen to their husbands, to submit to them, but this is mutual submission, each party listening to the other, and respecting the other.

Eph 5:21-25 submitting to one another in the fear of God. Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body. Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her,​

So in a Christian relationship, neither party should feel overpowered by the other.
Nice ques, let me ask the Muslim scholar.

"Just my personal view", we should not show anger, impatience and usages of Lucifer wording against others right if something we disagree? That's not Jesus teaching.

Some already developed a habit or lack of understanding/compassion habit, i.e. like to watch dirty and offensive jokes video, enjoying criticize in every situation or usages of improper wording like "slash them" this is happened to Pastor too during informal session.

When try to persuade them, then will show wonder woman attitude being always right and nagging for hours.

After a jobless woman watched those dirty video jokes, then use the wording against u after u had a burn out day yet do u feel like punching them ?..lol

i.e. BBC or Lucifer alike folk video. I can't stand watching more than 30 minutes.

Vice versa, when come to important issue related writing or escalation to Government or company CEO level about human rights then they will become quite, chicken and small.
 
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Let me ask the Muslim scolar
This is some reply from PM office from my country and translated to English as below.

"A husband cannot beat his wife. Allowed beatings are only educational without injuring and not degrading the wife," said the former Deputy Minister in the Prime Minister's Department Senator, Datuk Dr. Mashitah Ibrahim when asked to comment on the recording.

In Islam, a wife is the responsibility of a husband and Islam also teaches its people to be gentle and considerate in everything, especially in matters related to the household.

"As perfect as the faith of the believers is the one who behaves best, and who is the gentlest towards his wife" Narrated by Imam Al Bukhari and Muslim.

https://www.astroawani.com/berita-malaysia/hukum-suami-pukul-isteri-menurut-islam-20467


Let me know if you need more explanation that you think that is act of Lucifer or Lucifer wording so i can check with Muslim scholar.

Personal experience that i noticed those behave like Lucifer are those didnt attend prayers/sermon or uneducated yet can't see or hear the message above.
 
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Well, in Buddhism , they recognise Jesus as supreme being n a teacher. So, we don't criticise

Except Jesus by his own words was , ' the only way to God!'
meaning all other ways are false ways.
 
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That is not what I said. And it sounds like you are more concerned about views that directly contradict your view of God.
They all can point to truth and express it in different ways.
Is what I replied to, and the truth in other non christian religions is very limited.
The only truth that matters is that Jesus is the way to God something hinduism Buddism and islam rejects.
 
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Is what I replied to, and the truth in other non christian religions is very limited.
The only truth that matters is that Jesus is the way to God something hinduism Buddism and islam rejects.
Not too sure about others? Where is it mentioned that Buddhism rejected the concept ?

Most of my senior Buddhists, monk, etc didnt discourage me to visit Church or any critics (0%) but encourage in a sense.
 
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Except Jesus by his own words was , ' the only way to God!'
meaning all other ways are false ways.
Just my 2 cents. "false ways" are sensitive words. Many of my friends reluctant to join Christ due to this reason or those critics.

Can i suggest that "false ways in your religion" sentence change it to "Be aware of fallen angel that teaching as a false messiah" If you search "fake monk" wording on youtube then you can find plenty and many people still believing it yet being superstitious going to no where. Then ask n offer help? Many come to Church mostly have some serious personal issues or doing some business there ..lol

There are plenty of free thinker on earth. God may happy too i guess if you spreading Gospel without creating any discomfort but full of compassion and wisdom. Well, it's tough.
 
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Not too sure about others? Where is it mentioned that Buddhism rejected the concept ?

Most of my senior Buddhists, monk, etc didnt discourage me to visit Church or any critics (0%) but encourage in a sense.

Are your buddhist monks/teachers etc telling you to accept Jesus as saviour and Lord?
If they are not they are effectivly saying he is unimportant.
 
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"false ways" are sensitive words. Many of my friends reluctant to join Christ due to this reason or those critics.

If Islam is trus then all other religions are false, if Hinduism is trus all other religions are false, if Buddhism is true all other religions are false.

How does one get to God? All paths do not lead to God.

Brutal truths, you may not like them but they are true.
 
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If Islam is trus then all other religions are false, if Hinduism is trus all other religions are false, if Buddhism is true all other religions are false.

How does one get to God? All paths do not lead to God.

Brutal truths, you may not like them but they are true.

Not too sure but I was being taught try to use a better word to avoid arguements. This I learned from Christ too.
 
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