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At least, you smile.JonathanSDA living word said:I agree . I never read those long 1's i just smile and wave stupidly at the screen LOL
Just recall that this is a conversation, not a lecture circuit. Restrict the number of ideas you put in one post. Questions will do the rest.woobadooba said:sometimes a long post is necessary to provide examples and illustrations to get a point across
woobadooba said:I don't mean to say this to be insulting, but sometimes a long post is necessary to provide examples and illustrations to get a point across because some people just don't have the intellectual capacity to take deep thoughts in small bites.
That doesn't make sense.... if a person cannot digest "deep" thoughts in small bites, a larger bite is not going to improve the ability to digest the thought, it will make it worse.... If the target audience doesn't have the capacity then K.I.S.S. or Keep It Simple Stupid..... its the easiest way..... IMOwoobadooba said:I don't mean to say this to be insulting, but sometimes a long post is necessary to provide examples and illustrations to get a point across because some people just don't have the intellectual capacity to take deep thoughts in small bites.
heron said:I think they meant to say that to clarify a point or answer a question, a lot of examples and resources come to their mind, and they need the well-rounded presentation of all of them at once, or the post will not convey a balanced opinion.
(And then hey, what about those people with run-on sentences. :o ^)
woobadooba said:This is the point I was making. Obviously certain people in here have it out for me; and so they spend more time trying to refute everything I say than they do with trying to find out what I meant by saying it!
StormyOne said:Perhaps Woobad, but I am not one of them... it didn't make sense to me that you would suggest if a person didn't understand a short post, that they would understand a longer one.... so that is the context of my question.... you can apologize later.... its not that deep...
HoneyDew said:@ Tall.
I do understand what you are saying, but it is not watering down the impact of your (generic) posts when I can see the breaks. If you have to put the same info out in 3 separate posts, one behind the other, that would be better for me and for others. That way, in responding, quoting won't be a hassle.
However, I get that each person has a preference, so it is up to each of us to read and respond as we see fit.
I don't understand what you are referring to here.tall73 said:On a related subject, on most boards I go to when you quote you get their initial quotes to. But here you don't. Any reason why that you know of?
I hope the people who have it out for Woobadooba read this and take it back in. Reminds me of the Motel 6 ad: "We'll keep the light on for you."woobadooba said:Obviously certain people in here have it out for me;
What gets tiresome is when, as so often is the case, the first point is supported my flawed reasoning which I then feel obligated to correct. The rest of the post is meaningless after that. Too many times we don't ensure that what we say actually conveys what we want to say. As a result even the illustrations become meaningless. I should be able to understand somebody's point of view even if I don't know what went into it. If I disagree then I will ask for clarification. That way everyone benefits. Personally, I want as many people as possible to read my posts, even those with only a passing interest.tall73 said:I like long posts (no surprise there). I don't mind reading in order to get someone's view but I hate to sit there for 3-10 posts to get the same information I could have in one.
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