• The General Mental Health Forum is now a Read Only Forum. As we had two large areas making it difficult for many to find, we decided to combine the Mental Health & the Recovery sections of the forum into Mental Health & Recovery as a whole. Physical Health still remains as it's own area within the entire Recovery area.

    If you are having struggles, need support in a particular area that you aren't finding a specific recovery area forum, you may find the General Struggles forum a great place to post. Any any that is related to emotions, self-esteem, insomnia, anger, relationship dynamics due to mental health and recovery and other issues that don't fit better in another forum would be examples of topics that might go there.

    If you have spiritual issues related to a mental health and recovery issue, please use the Recovery Related Spiritual Advice forum. This forum is designed to be like Christian Advice, only for recovery type of issues. Recovery being like a family in many ways, allows us to support one another together. May you be blessed today and each day.

    Kristen.NewCreation and FreeinChrist

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  • CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.
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“True fortitude I take to be the quiet possession of a man’s self, and an undisturbed doing of his duty, whatever evil besets or danger lies in his way.”
JOHN LOCKE

“Restore me to the joy of your salvation and grant me a willing spirit, to sustain me.”
Psalm 51:12 NIV

David was king of the nation of Israel and had all political power, all the material wealth at his fingertips, a great army at his defense, many strong and powerful friends who advised him, and then there was Nathan the prophet. Nathan kept David accountable to himself and God. Nathan picked out a time in David’s life when the lust of the eyes and the weakness of his flesh pulled him into an adulteress relationship, and Nathan confronted David upfront about it. My how I hurts sometimes when there is someone we know, that knows us well enough, and they honestly shoot straight to us. The concept of sponsorship in working a program of recovery brings people into our lives that keep us accountable. The men’s Christian fellowship know as Promise Keepers has small groups that keep those involved accountable to each other. Many women have groups that meet regularly for prayer and other functions that allow a honest closeness to exist that brings about accountability. Sometimes it is possible for me to side-step issues in my life, until someone else points them out, and then I know that they know, and of course everyone knows that God knows. I have found that the best time to work on a problem in my life is when it is seen in the light of someone else’s eyes. This brings about a willingness, and that is where David received some of his strength to overcome himself. He more or less said “God grant me a willing spirit to sustain me.” If I am not willing and open to change daily in my life, then I am doomed to repeat over and over the mistakes of the past. Today I choose a willing spirit to sustain me so that God can do for me what I could not do for myself…………………..JRE

Then the Lord said to him, “You Pharisees are so careful to clean the outside of the cup and the dish, but inside you are still filthy, full of greed and wickedness!”
Luke 11:39 NLT

Changing those things in our life that we can change involves taking steps to clean the inside of our “cup,” our heart. We must begin by turning our eyes away from everyone around us, including those we blame for our condition in life or those we condemn to make our wrongs seem less in comparison. Then we can get back to looking within ourself. We all contain some residue of wrongdoing. When we admit this to God, and to ourself, and to others, we will experience the cleaning humility and forgiveness. Then we will have a life that can bring refreshment to others.
Life Recovery Bible, page 1227