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ninabina said:I never heard of it either Lily, till a couple of years ago. I was amazed at how many women actually shave their arms, and other places that I wouldn't even waste my time on! However, I have had hairy arms since I was young, and I have dark hair. Well, one day at work a supervisor and I were at the fax machine and he proceeds to touch my arm and say "I think that's sexy, the hair." Well, I went home and used hubby's trimmer and have been ever since. I don't like the undue attention, which I'm sure is mostly negative. I'm self-conscious as it is. I don't know why I am "hairy" either cuz my nationality is German, Irish and English. Ya know, it's mainly a culture thing though because in lots of other countries they are not obssessed with being free of body hair like Americans. Truthfully, I resent it because I don't want to be laying on my death bed and thinking about all the time I spent with razors and waxes. I prefer to do better things with my time. I dunno.
Marie O'S said:It's like a person having BO from not showering/using deoderant, or bad breath from not brushing their teeth - it's inconsiderate towards other people to let yourself get hairy, so I make sure I stay smooth.
I'm a midwestern moderately hairy white guy; they're all black smooth Jamaicans. My nieces just marvel at the hair on my arms, and will sit and pet it like they're petting a dog.