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Sexually Harmed **Trigger Warning**

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I have been thinking about some of the sexual harm I had from when I was tortured. It has been something I still struggle with. I was hurt sexually by my torturer Silver. She used objects on me sexually and she threatened to burn me sexually. It caused me great pain and made me feel violation in my body.
Caleb has brought me books on healing from abuse and they do talk about sexual abuse. He at times reads the books with me. Caleb is gentle with me and loving towards me sexually and is helping me heal but at times I struggle with feeling pain about my sexual abuse.
 

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I am so sorry dear Sister, Please know that God is turning an ugly branch into a beautiful rose and that He loves you so very much.
He is right there with you, Holding your hand and encouraging you to heal and enjoy your beautiful future with Caleb.
 
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I am so sorry dear Sister, Please know that God is turning an ugly branch into a beautiful rose and that He loves you so very much.
He is right there with you, Holding your hand and encouraging you to heal and enjoy your beautiful future with Caleb.
Thank you so much :) God bless you :)
 
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Isaiah 43 18-19
“Forget the former things
do not dwell on the past.
See, I am doing a new thing!
Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?
I am making a way in the wilderness
and streams in the wasteland.
 
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Isaiah 43 18-19
“Forget the former things
do not dwell on the past.
See, I am doing a new thing!
Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?
I am making a way in the wilderness
and streams in the wasteland.
Thank you for sharing this with me :)
 
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I have been thinking about some of the sexual harm I had from when I was tortured. It has been something I still struggle with. I was hurt sexually by my torturer Silver. She used objects on me sexually and she threatened to burn me sexually. It caused me great pain and made me feel violation in my body.
Caleb has brought me books on healing from abuse and they do talk about sexual abuse. He at times reads the books with me. Caleb is gentle with me and loving towards me sexually and is helping me heal but at times I struggle with feeling pain about my sexual abuse.
yea we humans are mostly sexually driven...but i'm glad you're coming from something that's not real to something that is more...well, romantic. good for you. everyone has brains including girls... sorry too that happened though too forreals. like i say to many girls, you are not an indentured servant to anyone. i hope he shows you a good life and continues his great worry with you. peace out and god bless.
 
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yea we humans are mostly sexually driven...but i'm glad you're coming from something that's not real to something that is more...well, romantic. good for you. everyone has brains including girls... sorry too that happened though too forreals. like i say to many girls, you are not an indentured servant to anyone. i hope he shows you a good life and continues his great worry with you. peace out and god bless.
Thank you :) Blessings :)
 
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