Sexual Compatibility

[Rhamiel]

I think they should see of they are spiritually compatable before sexual.

that is the best thing i read in this thread!

 

[SnowyMacie]

And I won't say that premarital sex is necessary for compatability, but the attitude toward it should be compatible among the mates. If one is repressed and one is a 'free spirit', that probably won't work. If one sees it as solely a baby making chore, and the other one wants its 6 times a day just because it's fun, that won't work either....but I have had enough experiences to see that (1) it should be discussed before marriage, and (2) it is best to wait until the 'I do's' before going there. It's a commitment act, not a feel good act ONLY.

Well said.

 

[Boondock_Saint]

Well said Saucy. And I won't say that premarital sex is necessary for compatability, but the attitude toward it should be compatible among the mates. If one is repressed and one is a 'free spirit', that probably won't work. If one sees it as solely a baby making chore, and the other one wants its 6 times a day just because it's fun, that won't work either....but I have had enough experiences to see that (1) it should be discussed before marriage, and (2) it is best to wait until the 'I do's' before going there. It's a commitment act, not a feel good act ONLY.

This was exactly the point I wanted to make.
Though I wasn't going to talk about frequency. I would put more emphasis on the number of sexual partners one has had verses the other person.

Many of us live with a daily guilt that will never go away until another human being tells us that they have forgiven our past and are willing to love us no matter the cost to them.

I for one will not sleep well at night until I am lying next to a woman who has seen as much of God's Grace as I have.