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jesusfreak3786 said:
I got married when I was 16 years old.

That's pretty young. How old are you now, and do you regret getting married so young?

I was married pretty young as well, and I really do regret it now. The marriage didn't last and I was really too immature.
 
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I was 14, probably a little younger than most. But I wonder, when you hear the whole thing from adults, "Everyone isn't really doing it, they just say they are. In fact no one is really doing it," if they are actually right. When I was in high school, everyone really was doing it.
 
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thirstforknowledge said:
That's pretty young. How old are you now, and do you regret getting married so young?

I was married pretty young as well, and I really do regret it now. The marriage didn't last and I was really too immature.

I am 21 now, with a four year old, and a three year old daughter. I do regret it, we stayed toggether married for only two years. 16 is to young to make such a choice.
 
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thirstforknowledge said:
That's pretty young. How old are you now, and do you regret getting married so young?

I was married pretty young as well, and I really do regret it now. The marriage didn't last and I was really too immature.
It's probably not because of your age. It's most likely because of your society. Half of all American marriages don't last. You're probably just part of the statistics.
 
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benmaarof said:
It's probably not because of your age. It's most likely because of your society. Half of all American marriages don't last. You're probably just part of the statistics.

society did have an impact, I don't think society caused the down fall of our marrage, but it set up the building blocks for us to see it casually, in this society marraige can be as casual as sex sometimes, I was young and I think in part influnced by my enviroment.
 
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