Sex Question

[beetlequeendiva]

Sorry if this is a TMI question however I'll ask anyway. Do any other single people have the urge to just go out and have sex?? I mean sometimes I have the urge to do that, I haven't done but I really would like to. I hope it's not just me................

 

[BeautyForAshes]

You are sooooooooooooo not alone in feeling that way. I think its a natural, hormonal instinct.

 

[london boy]

We all have our urges because God made us as sexual beings. It's a question of being able to control them, which varies from person-to-person

 

[chanis]

I think you would be weird if you didn't get any sexual urges

 

[Pyrogenesis]

Hmm, I'm beginning to think I'm weird, because I honestly don't ever get that... I guess I'm wired strange, because my base instinct is to provide and protect. I find myself drawn to single moms with sons because I can provide a good role model for him.

Oh great, I'm a freak

 

[RefinedByFire]

Statistics say that men think about sex every 6 minutes.

Thought you should know that.

 

[london boy]

I thought it was every six seconds?

 

[chanis]

Hmm, I'm beginning to think I'm weird, because I honestly don't ever get that... I guess I'm wired strange, because my base instinct is to provide and protect. I find myself drawn to single moms with sons because I can provide a good role model for him.

Oh great, I'm a freak

you've been officially labled "freak" lol

 

[Ginsu]

I thought it was every six seconds?

That would be pretty sad if that were true.

 

[covenantwmn]

Obviously you're not alone!! Sometimes think i'll go crazy if I don't! lol But I try and go to the Word, or talk to Him, and it helps. Still, there are those moments......hours.......days, months.......shall I go on???

 

[JiminyCricket]

I get those urges mostly when I'm alone and have time to think. When I'm at work, it hardly ever enters my mind because I'm so busy and goal oriented, but then I come home and start daydreaming about cuddling up and then some. Weird thing for me is that I dream more about the cuddling, intimacy, and sensuality of it all than the actual intercourse that most guys are after. But like others have said, we're all different...normal doesn't really exist.

 

[sweetlambofgod]

we all get that, and some go out and do it. You relaly gotta decide what is best for you. I dont go out and do it even though sometimes I want to.

 

[Sojourner<><]

This brings up another question (and I think it would be smart to keep the subject quarantined here so it doesn't snowball into a problem) :

For those of us who get really strong urges, is it wrong to marry because you have these urges? I would think it might leave you in an awkward spot years later when the sex drive starts to die down a little.

I also keep thinking that I'm waiting to meet someone I can fall in love with. But honestly when my urges are too strong, it makes it harder for me to wait for my heart to catch up, know what I mean? I remember those really strong emotions I would get when I was younger, before my sex drive started to take over. I guess I'm hoping that that sort of thing will happen again but am I just kidding myself? My worst fear is that I'll have to wait for my sex drive to get out of the way before I can have a big crush on someone again.

Darned biological responses . I wish I had an on/off button for everything I can do.

 

[Spicy McHaggis]

Sorry if this is a TMI question however I'll ask anyway. Do any other single people have the urge to just go out and have sex?? I mean sometimes I have the urge to do that, I haven't done but I really would like to. I hope it's not just me................

Sounds pretty normal to me.

 

[Tumbleweed64]

Hmm, I'm beginning to think I'm weird, because I honestly don't ever get that... I guess I'm wired strange, because my base instinct is to provide and protect. I find myself drawn to single moms with sons because I can provide a good role model for him.

Oh great, I'm a freak

I would have to say you're not a freak at all

 

[JeremiahJ]

Man, ha, wish I was a "freak."

 

[Inperfected]

Hmm... i do at times... except not for the urges.

It's weird, i don't feel it as much now, but did heaps in the past few years...
Kinda like i just wanted to go out and do "it" and in some ways pnish myself for the dodgy stuff i've done... But it's hard to explain really...

 

[Niels]

Yup. I often feel like a walking paradox. But either way, I'd rather tame the fleshly urges than be controlled by them. There's so much more to life.

 

[Spicy McHaggis]

just don't try to supress these urges with hard liquor y'all.

 

[Mr.Cheese]

You're not weird.
Just remember that we've been given the sense to know what is healthy and unhealthy behavior.
Desire is a good thing. We just can't let it control us.