JaneFW
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I need to not take part in these threads, that's pretty obvious. This is not a theory to me, it's a reality, and so I can't afford to read that a marriage without sex is dead, or it's a rejection of marriage by the other spouse. I'm barely holding on some days, so that I don't need - although other people are welcome to their theories about how it would be for them without sex, obviously.
I just have two quick thoughts:
I don't believe that God imparts any greater strength or grace to people whose spouse has become disabled, than he gives to anyone who asks for strength and grace for any reason, at any time. It's always available. He doesn't pick and choose.
Secondly, the Corinthians scripture is not the only scripture about marriage. In fact, the Bible tells us constantly to love and forgive *always* - "the greatest of these is love" "love is patient, love is kind" - these are just off the top of my head. We are to apply all scriptures always, in our dealings with everyone - including our spouse. It's no good loving our neighbors, then despising our spouse because we don't feel satisfied.
I better stop here, because I feel like I'm lecturing, and that's not my intent. I don't think that anyone is wrong to feel the need for sex and to find it vital, I just think that it can also be lived without. If someone chooses to do so - or if that's just the "cross" they have been given to bear!
I'm really leaving it there - so I won't be back to respond to any comments, so don't anyone think I'm being rude if I don't answer a question or comment.
I just have two quick thoughts:
I don't believe that God imparts any greater strength or grace to people whose spouse has become disabled, than he gives to anyone who asks for strength and grace for any reason, at any time. It's always available. He doesn't pick and choose.
Secondly, the Corinthians scripture is not the only scripture about marriage. In fact, the Bible tells us constantly to love and forgive *always* - "the greatest of these is love" "love is patient, love is kind" - these are just off the top of my head. We are to apply all scriptures always, in our dealings with everyone - including our spouse. It's no good loving our neighbors, then despising our spouse because we don't feel satisfied.
I better stop here, because I feel like I'm lecturing, and that's not my intent. I don't think that anyone is wrong to feel the need for sex and to find it vital, I just think that it can also be lived without. If someone chooses to do so - or if that's just the "cross" they have been given to bear!
I'm really leaving it there - so I won't be back to respond to any comments, so don't anyone think I'm being rude if I don't answer a question or comment.
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