Hey NoName
You're in a tough situation no doubt.
First, a couple of comments on marriage counselling. Marriage couselling can be helpful depending on the issue. For example, you get a killer job offer with a major raise in another state but your wife doesn't want to move. Seeing a counsellor about something like this can help a couple sort through making a decision.
However, if you're seeing a counsellor because your marriage is on the rocks, there's little a counsellor can do because at least one in the couple is already mentally and emotionally out of the marriage. If you do see a counsellor, you'll most likely be paying someone to do little more than just listen and validate. But, you can give it a shot if she's willing.
It sounds like you're more or less separated for the moment. I'd suggest take a break from each other and give her some time to sort things out. Don't know what the outcome will be, but if you lay low for a bit, you'll likely find out soon.
Good Luck!
You're in a tough situation no doubt.
First, a couple of comments on marriage counselling. Marriage couselling can be helpful depending on the issue. For example, you get a killer job offer with a major raise in another state but your wife doesn't want to move. Seeing a counsellor about something like this can help a couple sort through making a decision.
However, if you're seeing a counsellor because your marriage is on the rocks, there's little a counsellor can do because at least one in the couple is already mentally and emotionally out of the marriage. If you do see a counsellor, you'll most likely be paying someone to do little more than just listen and validate. But, you can give it a shot if she's willing.
It sounds like you're more or less separated for the moment. I'd suggest take a break from each other and give her some time to sort things out. Don't know what the outcome will be, but if you lay low for a bit, you'll likely find out soon.
Good Luck!
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