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We got to remember that our mouth directs our destiny. Our mouth can detour us out of the “Will of God”. Our mouth will create something’s that God did not have plan for us. We are so busy listening to what other people say. Putting value on what other people say. That we don’t put a kingdom value on what comes out of our own mouth. The Bible says that life and death is in your tongue. God gives us the authority to bring a thing to life or kill a thing. We normally think that being privileged with that kind of authority is outward. But the first arena of combat is you bringing things to life in your own life, and killing things in you that art not be alive. Theirs been stuff you been dealing with for 20 years that’s waiting on you to open your mouth for you, and not for somebody else. You are so busy evaluating other folks. You are not speaking to your own issue. Some of this stuff we are dealing with…we talked ourselves into. We just keep repeating it, until, it becomes imbedded into our spirit. The problem is you can become comfortable with hurting yourself. It’s easier for you to talk to your hurt. Then it is for you to talk to your own deliverance . You have more conversations with you, about you…. About what happen to you. There’s something called non-verbal conversation. Theirs a tape player inside of you, that you no longer hear. Because you have it on mute, but it’s still running…So all you do now is feel what you use to hear. So nobody has to say nothing to you. Because you are feeling what happen to you 20 years ago, and when you do open your mouth you are not speaking life to yourself. If you are not careful you will rehearse what’s wrong with you, but never speak a word to yourself on being delivered. You want somebody else to do what God has commission ourselves to do with our own mouth…
 
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There is a time for sorrow, pain and distress, but I do agree we need to put things to death which are in us. One day I realized, after reading the apostle Paul's words, that I put hopelessness to death. it was a joyful thing to ponder.
 
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There is a time for sorrow, pain and distress, but I do agree we need to put things to death which are in us. One day I realized, after reading the apostle Paul's words, that I put hopelessness to death. it was a joyful thing to ponder.
Well said...
 
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