Seeking God's will

[Mobiosity]

My husband wants a divorce. I don't. We are separated but living in the same house. I avoid him as much as possible, I want to get used to not being around him. He is being as kind and thoughtful as ever (very). It would be easier for me to say, okay, I give, let's do it. But I'm waiting for God tell me so. I think it's wrong (I also think he's going through some kind of a mid-life crisis). I'm not going to make a move until I hear something one way or the other from God. I'm praying for healing for our marriage and I don't want to step out in front of God's timing (something that never turns out well).

Help, support, opinions are all welcome.

Mobi

 

[Autumnleaf]

If you don't want a divorce maybe you should stop avoiding him. What if he was happy to see you? What could you do so he'd be happy to be around you more?

 

[Romanseight2005]

Is he a Christian?

 

[Mobiosity]

Is he a Christian?

He says he is.

 

[Mobiosity]

If you don't want a divorce maybe you should stop avoiding him. What if he was happy to see you? What could you do so he'd be happy to be around you more?

We commute together. About an hour each way. I avoid him to make it easier on my, it's self-preservation. He is kind and always seems happy to see me, he also says he is determined to have a divorce and to move to Canada. He's going to visit his girlfriend in Canada for a week in July and again in August.

 

[FLANDIDLYANDERS]

I was in a situation a bit like this for a while... I severed it as soon as my emotions let me. Best thing I ever did. Freed her, freed me, freed the kids.

 

[Autumnleaf]

We commute together. About an hour each way. I avoid him to make it easier on my, it's self-preservation. He is kind and always seems happy to see me, he also says he is determined to have a divorce and to move to Canada. He's going to visit his girlfriend in Canada for a week in July and again in August.

If my wife did that I'm take all her stuff to the thrift store and change the locks while she was away.