searching for a spouse

[Torah]

Before you get married will you ask your Father and Mother to pray to make sure G-d wanted you to marry this person?

Will your spouse [to be], ask there Father and Mother to pray to make sure G-d wanted you to marry this person?

If either set of parents would say they did not believe this person was the one you should marry would you listen and not married said person?

Would you considered marring a person that your parents suggest?

What if your parents come to you and told you they had been approached by the parents of a young person in your Church, and they were interested in you marrying there son / daughter, would you considered this person?

Did the man ask permission from the Woman’s Father to marry his daughter?

If the Father said no! would you still get married?

 

[DCHSKNIGHT]

Before you get married will you ask your Father and Mother to pray to make sure G-d wanted you to marry this person?
No I wont... both my parents are dead. My father died when I was 2 and my mother died senior year of High School. I do believe my mother did the best da.ned job she could. I would not have any other woman to be my mother, She raised me to have good expectations of whom ever my future wife is and how to treat her. She said "Treat as a princess" So I do that. And God ulitmatly knows Their wishes, My wishes and his wishes better then any one.

Will your spouse [to be], ask there Father and Mother to pray to make sure G-d wanted you to marry this person? No, only her mother, Her father and her do not get along very well. And he is an unbeleiver.

If either set of parents would say they did not believe this person was the one you should marry would you listen and not married said person?
I would listen and hear their concerns. But ultimatly I will do as God asks me to, even if it is not what my parents< if they were still alive> wants. See What God wants comes above what even parents want. I also bleieve it is possible to still honor your parents in what you do, by chooseing what God wants over them. Because when we get to Heaven, God will not ask us why did not do what our parents said about marrying someone, he will ask "Why did you not do what I asked of you?"

Would you considered marring a person that your parents suggest?
Why not, I see no reason to not consider it.

What if your parents come to you and told you they had been approached by the parents of a young person in your Church, and they were interested in you marrying there son / daughter, would you considered this person?
Yes, I would look at them. As a Man, this process would make the daiting thing a heck of a lot easier... Of course, if this was the case, I would go to that person, Not through parents but go striaght to them, Talk to them and get to know them personaly, but not through parents...

Did the man ask permission from the Woman’s Father to marry his daughter?
Well when I get to that point in my life with my girlfriend, I will consider it, but to be honest, his opinion in the matter is nto really equal, he is an unbleiver and not on the same page. I would most likely talk to her mother.

If the Father said no! would you still get married?
Ultimatly, it is God's choice not ours and not his. God is the soverign master of the universe and he put together whom he wishes. Now of couse I do not think that God would userp the authority of the father in his daugher's life because that is hiw role, but when it comes right down to the facts, His answer really dose not matter, God's is the one that matters.

 

[JCFantasy23]

Before you get married will you ask your Father and Mother to pray to make sure G-d wanted you to marry this person?

No, my parents would likely just look at me oddly. They're Christians but it's just not the way we work with each other.

Will your spouse [to be], ask there Father and Mother to pray to make sure G-d wanted you to marry this person?

Very doubtful.

If either set of parents would say they did not believe this person was the one you should marry would you listen and not married said person?

If I followed my heart, he followed his, and we believed that God blessed the relationship, then I would follow this over my parents.

Would you considered marring a person that your parents suggest?

Only if I agreed with them and wanted to marry this person beforehand.

What if your parents come to you and told you they had been approached by the parents of a young person in your Church, and they were interested in you marrying there son / daughter, would you considered this person?

No, it would sound desperate and strange to me.

Did the man ask permission from the Woman’s Father to marry his daughter?

No.

If the Father said no! would you still get married?

Yes.