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Love is patient and kind; it is not jealous or conceited or proud; love is not ill-mannered or selfish or irritable; love does not keep a record of wrongs; love is not happy with evil, but is happy with the truth. (1 Corinthians 13:4-6 GNB)

Keeping score is one of many ways to abandon love for the brethren and thus to abandon love for God. Throw away that score book.
 

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Love is patient and kind; it is not jealous or conceited or proud; love is not ill-mannered or selfish or irritable; love does not keep a record of wrongs; love is not happy with evil, but is happy with the truth. (1 Corinthians 13:4-6 GNB)

Keeping score is one of many ways to abandon love for the brethren and thus to abandon love for God. Throw away that score book.

Does that include me keeping no record of my own wrongs?
 
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These verses sum it up best IMO.

Ephesians 4:26-27GOD’S WORD Translation (GW)

26 Be angry without sinning. Don’t go to bed angry. 27 Don’t give the devil any opportunity to work.
 
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It's best not to worry about what God does, he is perfect in his justice as well as perfect in his love and mercy. God is the least likely to be out gunning for you because you don't quite measure up to some other Christian's doctrine, morality, or practises. It's people that need to throw away their score books. It's people that the first post is about.
 
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It's best not to worry about what God does, he is perfect in his justice as well as perfect in his love and mercy. God is the least likely to be out gunning for you because you don't quite measure up to some other Christian's doctrine, morality, or practises. It's people that need to throw away their score books. It's people that the first post is about.

Are we not to love others as God loves us? Are we not to love others as we love ourselves?
 
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It's best not to worry about what God does, he is perfect in his justice as well as perfect in his love and mercy. God is the least likely to be out gunning for you because you don't quite measure up to some other Christian's doctrine, morality, or practises. It's people that need to throw away their score books. It's people that the first post is about.
Are we not to love others as God loves us? Are we not to love others as we love ourselves?
I hope your questions are rhetorical. Of course we are to love others as Christ has loved us and of course we are to love others as we love ourselves. These are fundamentals of the faith which I hope all Christians believe and, with God's grace, try to live. So why ask?
 
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I hope your questions are rhetorical. Of course we are to love others as Christ has loved us and of course we are to love others as we love ourselves. These are fundamentals of the faith which I hope all Christians believe and, with God's grace, try to live. So why ask?

Do you keep a record of your wrongs?
 
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