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Schadenfreude?

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Well, it's not so much a "lack of forgiveness" issue that I'm witnessing within myself. It's more of a "Well, who couldn't have seen that coming?" issue.

Choices do have repercussions, ya know?

I think the reality is she showed you who she was and you believed her. I Know a lot of people in Mississippi that move out just because of reasons like this. No I would have thought the same thing I have a friend just like that. His girlfriend treats him horrible, even was an ex prostitute(found her online) and she stabs him threatens the children really bad stuff. When i examine the history she isn't someone I would have dated because of the red flags.

You know just because Jesus had a close follower that used to be a prostitute doesn't mean that there werent relationship issues for her because of that or that it has no affect on her behavior. I hate when people use that excuse being judgmental is telling someone they are going to hell that's the judgement. A woman that had sex with to many guys in the same circle is immature, self esteem issues, childhood issues and probably needs to find herself.
 
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