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We are moving this thread to a section where it is a better fit, from Christian Advice to Obsessive Compulsive Disorder Forum.
 
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it haunts that that if i see someone with a name starting with B i get a thught saying bebeuul or whatever hess called and my thoughts call the the holy spirit it and ihave ocd but its scary and also im terrified of getting a hard heart

I can relate to your concern as I have OCD Scrupulosity and I am constantly concerned that I blasphemed and that I have a hard heart. That part in Madea's Christmas scared me when it plays she uses that word and instantly my head goes to the Holy Spirit. OCD Scrupolisity is no joke.
 
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it haunts that that if i see someone with a name starting with B i get a thught saying bebeuul or whatever hess called and my thoughts call the the holy spirit it and ihave ocd but its scary and also im terrified of getting a hard heart
Using what you know about dealing with OCD, what do you think is the best way to handle these thoughts?
 
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it haunts that that if i see someone with a name starting with B i get a thught saying bebeuul or whatever hess called and my thoughts call the the holy spirit it and ihave ocd but its scary and also im terrified of getting a hard heart

In law a prosecutor has to prove that a murder meant to kill his victim. One cannot be an accidental murder.

An extreme example but it is apt. We are not accidental sinners.
Jesus knows all about your OCD and what it does to you and the anguish it causes you.

He is wise enough to be able to distinguish between your deliberate sins and the anguish caused by the activity of your OCD.

Thank God for Jesus and for his wisdom in his Justice. He Will Do that which is right and just for you.
 
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