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Saying good-bye....

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I have received a lot out of this forum. You are precious people here, but recently I have felt that I needed to get off. I think this is the leading of the Lord for me now. A little over a year ago, something was posted on here that triggered my own OCD fears really badly and at that time my husband asked me not to visit such sites again. (This was not any of you posters who are posting now...in case you are wondering. This poster no longer posts here and hasn't since then.) Anyhow, I slowly made my way back, but, really, I think for me, that he is right about this and he is my authority. So I believe it is also the Lord's will that I not continue to come here.

I care about you guys. I hurt for your struggles, and I pray for you to be delivered from this awful OCD.:hug::prayer: I will still be around on CF. So if you would like to discuss anything or need prayer etc, you can still feel free to pm me, but I will not be posting here. I would not even feel the need to say anything except I'm such a blabbermouth over here, I know that some of you would eventually wonder about it.^_^;)

Thanks for all the help you have given me, and I hope I have helped speak into your life in some way too. Several of you in particular have spoken wisdom into my life that I still benefit from now and probably will the rest of my life.:thumbsup: But for me to remain when I feel the Lord is otherwise leading would be not only wrong but unwise.

May God bless you all~

Paula aka "kaykay"
 
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Hey KayKay you will be sorely missed but I respect your reasons for leaving! All I can say is thank you a hundred times over for all the help and support you have been to me...you are an absolute treasure and I'll miss you. If you ever need prayer or to chat please do feel very free to pm...sending you hugs and best wishes...will pray for you...take care, Rachel
 
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First of all thanks for your kind replies to me and may God bless you.:hug:
Thank you and may God bless you too!:hug:
Hey KayKay you will be sorely missed but I respect your reasons for leaving! All I can say is thank you a hundred times over for all the help and support you have been to me...you are an absolute treasure and I'll miss you. If you ever need prayer or to chat please do feel very free to pm...sending you hugs and best wishes...will pray for you...take care, Rachel
Hey, I will miss you guys too and again, if you have the need to pm me about anything, please feel free to do so!:hug:
 
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Awww, Kaykay, so sorry to see you go. :( But I do understand, sometimes ya just gotta step away. I wish you all the best in your continued recovery and look forward to the day we'll all get to meet - OCD FREE! - in heaven and rejoice that Christ's sacrifice overcame our afflictions. :hug:

Thought of this verse I'd like to share with you!

"I thank my God every time I remember you. In all my prayers for all of you, I always pray with joy because of your partnership in the gospel from the first day until now, being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus. It is right for me to feel this way about all of you, since I have you in my heart; for whether I am in chains or defending and confirming the gospel, all of you share in God's grace with me. God can testify how I long for all of you with the affection of Christ Jesus.
And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless until the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ—to the glory and praise of God." - Philippians 1:3-11


Best of luck, Paula!!!
 
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Awww, Kaykay, so sorry to see you go. :( But I do understand, sometimes ya just gotta step away. I wish you all the best in your continued recovery and look forward to the day we'll all get to meet - OCD FREE! - in heaven and rejoice that Christ's sacrifice overcame our afflictions. :hug:

Thought of this verse I'd like to share with you!

"I thank my God every time I remember you. In all my prayers for all of you, I always pray with joy because of your partnership in the gospel from the first day until now, being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus. It is right for me to feel this way about all of you, since I have you in my heart; for whether I am in chains or defending and confirming the gospel, all of you share in God's grace with me. God can testify how I long for all of you with the affection of Christ Jesus.
And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless until the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ—to the glory and praise of God." - Philippians 1:3-11


Best of luck, Paula!!!
Thanks, Sad, (though I really think we should change your name to "Glad!");) Thanks for your testimony of overcoming and your many wise words which you have posted here that I, and I'm sure others have benefited from.

Thanks for the prayer from scripture~~no better kind! May you and all the others here, continue to walk freer and freer of any OCD tendencies!:thumbsup::prayer::hug:
 
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I have received a lot out of this forum. You are precious people here, but recently I have felt that I needed to get off. I think this is the leading of the Lord for me now. A little over a year ago, something was posted on here that triggered my own OCD fears really badly and at that time my husband asked me not to visit such sites again. (This was not any of you posters who are posting now...in case you are wondering. This poster no longer posts here and hasn't since then.) Anyhow, I slowly made my way back, but, really, I think for me, that he is right about this and he is my authority. So I believe it is also the Lord's will that I not continue to come here.

I care about you guys. I hurt for your struggles, and I pray for you to be delivered from this awful OCD.:hug::prayer: I will still be around on CF. So if you would like to discuss anything or need prayer etc, you can still feel free to pm me, but I will not be posting here. I would not even feel the need to say anything except I'm such a blabbermouth over here, I know that some of you would eventually wonder about it.^_^;)

Thanks for all the help you have given me, and I hope I have helped speak into your life in some way too. Several of you in particular have spoken wisdom into my life that I still benefit from now and probably will the rest of my life.:thumbsup: But for me to remain when I feel the Lord is otherwise leading would be not only wrong but unwise.

May God bless you all~

Paula aka "kaykay"

Is it just me or are you having a problem detaching yourself from this forum as much as I am :p:hug::p

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^_^^_^^_^^_^Is it that obvious?? Yes, I am and I figured it wouldnt be easy,and I still intend to, but just a few "parting shots!":D;)

Dont worry, you can say I have been trying to get away too <Lord give me the strength> ^_^^_^
 
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i was talking to james ....it was a private joke

You should see how bad I am on calling people back lol..

(2 weeks after voicemail) "Oh hey I am calling you back" lol

Drives me family and girlfriend a bit nuts I think..to say the least :p
 
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kaykay,
you have been an awesome blessing here and I will miss you so much.However I hope to see you around still,I know that is selfish some but I love you and hate to see you go.Yet I understand you too and you have to do what is right for you,but you are such a blessing and we will all miss you
God Bless You
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kaykay,
you have been an awesome blessing here and I will miss you so much.However I hope to see you around still,I know that is selfish some but I love you and hate to see you go.Yet I understand you too and you have to do what is right for you,but you are such a blessing and we will all miss you
God Bless You
annrobert
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