• Starting today August 7th, 2024, in order to post in the Married Couples, Courting Couples, or Singles forums, you will not be allowed to post if you have your Marital status designated as private. Announcements will be made in the respective forums as well but please note that if yours is currently listed as Private, you will need to submit a ticket in the Support Area to have yours changed.

  • CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.

Saving

Antje

Regular Member
Jul 22, 2006
1,026
79
Vancouver
✟31,568.00
Faith
Anabaptist
Marital Status
Married
Politics
CA-Greens
Technically, yes. Our wedding night was the first time we had intercourse. But we did plenty of other things before then. I'm not saying I'm proud or ashamed of that (I'm not even sure most days), I'm just saying that's what happened.
 
  • Like
Reactions: christiankate
Upvote 0

sdmsanjose

Regular Member
Jun 19, 2006
3,774
405
Arizona
✟38,684.00
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Married
No, but I wished that I would have been a virgin when I married for several reasons.

My pre-marital sexual activities caused problems in our marriage and my willful and knowlegeble decsions to sin against God was a lost opportunity.

However, with God's grace and mercy my wife and I celebrated our 40th wedding anniversery this month. We still kiss and hug and enjoy each other. We are also very close to our children. Thank God!

etmama,
I admire you and your husband for following a more godly path in your pre-marriage sexual decsions!
 
Upvote 0