Well we disagree on the meaning of Sheol.
We do disagree.
I also thought at one time that Sheol was grave.
However, I know now that Sheol means the place of the departed dead and was never meant to be grave in Hebrew.
Please consider Psalm 116:3 and see if Sheol might not encompass the idea of dread and hopelessness of despondant folks.
PS 116:1 I LOVE the LORD, because He hears
My voice and my supplications.
2 Because He has inclined His ear to me,
Therefore I shall call upon Him as long as I live.
3 The cords of death encompassed me,
And the terrors of Sheol came upon me;
I found distress and sorrow.
4 Then I called upon the name of the LORD:
In that case he never died yet, but was very close.
Cords of death are around him and like it is about to pull him in.
And he senses the terrors of Sheol.
He was very close to death.
Same as here ...
PS 18:4 The cords of death encompassed me,
And the torrents of ungodliness terrified me.
5 The cords of Sheol surrounded me;
The snares of death confronted me.
6 In my distress I called upon the LORD,
And cried to my God for help;
He heard my voice out of His temple,
And my cry for help before Him came into His ears.
We see the cords of death and Sheol kind of curling around him.
And snare of death confronted him in v.5.
He was very close to dying.
Or how about Psalm 86:13, was David dead and in the place of departed souls? Nope. .
PS 86:11 Teach me Thy way, O LORD;
I will walk in Thy truth;
Unite my heart to fear Thy name. 12 I will give thanks to Thee, O Lord my God, with all my heart,
And will glorify Thy name forever. 13 For Thy lovingkindness toward me is great,
And Thou hast delivered my soul from the depths of Sheol.
"From" (4480) means either "from the side of" or "out of".
Since we know that David was close to death in the verses above and that the cords of Sheol were around him, the likely understanding of "from" (4480) is that he was saved from the side of Sheol. He was on the brink of it.
So while my view may be mistaken, it is consistent with the accepted meanings of Sheol. Ryrie commenting of Psalm 30:3 which says "O Lord, Thou hast brought up my soul from Sheol" indicates this means "God delivered him (David) from the brink of death."
That is correct. Devid was at the brink of death and Sheol.
So he cryed out while his life was ebbing, not after he died according to my perhaps mistaken view, ...
It is not a matter of having a mistaken view or not, but that of research into plain text.
My view might also be mistaken, but I do not see other references in disproving that.
In context of Jonah text, (life ebbing away) he did cry out from inside the Sheol.
...which is consistent with Luke 16:19-31, which teaches there is not second bite at the apple.
Rich man was in Hades/Sheol and could not get to Abraham's Bosom because there was a great barrier between the two (the schism).
But Abraham's Bosom was not heaven, and that schism does not run between heaven and Sheol.
Between Abraham's Bosom and Hades, yes, but not between heaven and Hades/Sheol.
At the OT time heaven was generally closed altogether for the masses and Christ opened the access after the cross.
And concerning the "2nd bite at the apple".
We know that if one rejects Christ here he will not see eternal life.
But if one never had a chance to reject the gospel of Christ (never heard it, or was taught a "bad" gospel), he still appears to have a "1st chance at the apple" while in the Sheol.
Thanks,
Ed