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Greetings, Erwin,Erwin said:As this is primarily a Christian site, and we specifically aim this site towards conventional/ orthodox Christians, we make no qualms that our rules are geared towards protecting the orthodox Christian viewpoint and Christian members.
It's fair and good that we have open debate and allow unorthodox Christians and people of other faiths to post whatever they like, and mature orthodox Christians would be able to debate these, but there are many immature and "young" Christians on this site who run the risk of being misled. So our rules are also geared towards protecting the less mature Christians. I hope this is understandable.
NB: I am working on the assumption that the term 'immature Christians' as used by Irwin refers to new Christians or those not yet secure in their faith, rather than those that are children.lao tzu said:There you have it, swart, from the webmaster himself if I haven't misunderstood. While I sympathize with your position, his argument in defense of less mature members is compelling. If you want to debate the merits of your own orthodoxy in a fully open forum, you'll have to find a site which is not populated by children. This seems inherently reasonable.
Swart said:NB: I am working on the assumption that the term 'immature Christians' as used by Irwin refers to new Christians or those not yet secure in their faith, rather than those that are children.
lao tzu said:This is wishful thinking. There are indeed children reading and posting these forums. Nor is there reason to believe they won't be in places you wouldn't expect them to habituate. I've been PMed by a 9th grader already, and I haven't even been here a week.
Erwin's reference to "immature" christians must certainly include the youngster who shared her thoughts with me. Children are easily overawed by reasoning they cannot yet comprehend. Ninth graders, independent of their potential, are still children, extremely impressionable and deserving of protection.
While I also have doubts about the reasonableness of raising children in a hot-house environment, THESE ARE NOT MY KIDS. And, respectfully, they are not yours.
boughtwithaprice said:I see your points, Swart. What I can say is that your arguments will not be judged on substance, they will be judged on style. The truth stands on its own. Speak in a forthright manner, and you should have no problem. Make statements, and allow discussion. If you think an OC position is weak, then prove it.
boughtwithaprice said:What I don't want to see is when OCs try and analyze your arguments or your beliefs, an LDS tells them that they got it wrong and they have to go to FAIR or FARMS to get it right. If you think they got it wrong, then tell them the right way in your own words, or make note of an agreeable reference. You may also be entering high level apologetics with those not skilled in that type of argument. You may make your case, but I do not want to see any gloating or derision, try to be polite.
boughtwithaprice said:I would like to see what it is you have to say and hope your thread goes well. I'll do my best to keep you from getting a warning, but the UT team will judge the appropriateness of the thread. We would like to have a nice reasoned conversation with LDS, as opposed to what is going on at present.
Are you saying that there are no reasoned conversations going on with LDS at present? I'm not asking this to argue or be offended... it is simply an honest question.boughtwithaprice said:We would like to have a nice reasoned conversation with LDS, as opposed to what is going on at present.
skylark1 said:Are you saying that there are no reasoned conversations going on with LDS at present? I'm not asking this to argue or be offended... it is simply an honest question.
Erwin said:As this is primarily a Christian site, and we specifically aim this site towards conventional/ orthodox Christians, we make no qualms that our rules are geared towards protecting the orthodox Christian viewpoint and Christian members.
It's fair and good that we have open debate and allow unorthodox Christians and people of other faiths to post whatever they like, and mature orthodox Christians would be able to debate these, but there are many immature and "young" Christians on this site who run the risk of being misled. So our rules are also geared towards protecting the less mature Christians. I hope this is understandable.
Swart said:NB: I am working on the assumption that the term 'immature Christians' as used by Irwin refers to new Christians or those not yet secure in their faith, rather than those that are children.
Now, my twelve-year-old son reads some of my posts here and tries to follow some of the argumentation. I teach him critical thinking and to learn the difference between a fact and an inference and how to draw a logical conclusion. I have directed a newly baptised LDS to the site to read up on what the detractors to our faith are saying. In Australia (at least) it is almost impossible for someone to be baptised LDS without being bombarded by anti-mormon literature and being given links to websites that criticise our beliefs. I would much rather they encounter this stuff early on than in a couple of years and accuse us of withholding information from them.
And what this does confirm to me that the possibility that some OC beliefs do not hold up to close scrutiny has been acknowledged. This is not a startling revelation to me, it is an opinion I have held for some time that my opinions, even inside a stronghold of Orthodox Christian belief and restricted by numerous rules are considered sufficiently dangerous that they need to be restricted to some extent.
Apex said:Hi Erwin, I have just one simple, Yes or No, question.
Are unorthodox and non-christians allowed to win debates? And please just give a Yes or No. Any mod can answer to if they wish. Thank you.
boughtwithaprice said:they can win debates. I just want them to do it fair and square. Stick to the rules of argumentation and evidence and they should do fine.
Erwin said:As this is primarily a Christian site, and we specifically aim this site towards conventional/ orthodox Christians, we make no qualms that our rules are geared towards protecting the orthodox Christian viewpoint and Christian members.
It's fair and good that we have open debate and allow unorthodox Christians and people of other faiths to post whatever they like, and mature orthodox Christians would be able to debate these, but there are many immature and "young" Christians on this site who run the risk of being misled. So our rules are also geared towards protecting the less mature Christians. I hope this is understandable.
Apex said:Are unorthodox and non-christians allowed to win debates? And please just give a Yes or No. Any mod can answer to if they wish. Thank you.
Rising Tree said:With all due respect, Erwin, if Mormonism truly were falsehood, would it not perish on a level playing field? Does not the concept of sheltering conventional Christianity automatically imply that it might be an inferior belief?
But OCs dont have to stick to being fair and square?boughtwithaprice said:they can win debates. I just want them to do it fair and square. Stick to the rules of argumentation and evidence and they should do fine.
Apex said:But OCs dont have to stick to being fair and square?
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