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The last month my lesbian partner had an abortion which was an answer to prayer.
promotion that if you pray to God he will answer your prayers for the death of a fetus therefore promotion of abortion .....



Anyone know where to go for an inexpensive abortion?

asking where to go for an abortion therefore this is promotion of abortion

Any advice on the process of getting a gender change? I am finally ready for this step
Again any advice given would then be promotion of an act that we know to be against nature ... therefore it is the promotion of it

As at this point we could not answer in the negative to this as it would be considered debate to dissuade the person then all the person would get is answers that are promotional....
 
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debiwebi said:
promotion that if you pray to God he will answer your prayers for the death of a fetus therefore promotion of abortion .....




asking where to go for an abortion therefore this is promotion of abortion

Again any advice given would then be promotion of an act that we know to be against nature ... therefore it is the promotion of it

As at this point we could not answer in the negative to this as it would be considered debate to dissuade the person then all the person would get is answers that are promotional....
I don't really think so... for me, a promotion would be when someone encouraged others to do something, not helping someone who has already made a decision.
 
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kimber1 said:
off topic...... where did you get that cutesy little "king" character beside your post count that says annointed poster? :)
He has over 50,000 posts.
 
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:: Starlight :: said:
Why sad? It's just that the morality of it can't be discussed in any way... It can't be promoted, but it also can't be condenmed.

So CF now is officially morally neutral about abortion, polygamy, transexuality, extra-marital sex and drug use?


That's sad and extremely dissapointing.


I could not encourage Christians to come to this type of morally indecisive site under the guise that they are entering a "Christian" forum.

I have encouraged others to come here before... this change will change my practice.
 
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drstevej said:
So CF now is officially morally neutral about abortion, poolygamy, transexuality, extra-marital sex and drug use?


That's sad and extremely dissapointing.


I could not encourage Christians to come to this type of morally indecisive site under the guise that they are entering a "Christian" forum.

I have encouraged others to come here before... this change will change my practice.
CF is a website mostly for Christians... and as long as Christians can't decide if something is right or wrong, it's good that both sides can express their views. And things like, for example, transsexuality, are considered to be wrong only by some Christians.
 
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debiwebi said:
Yes yes & yes ..... there is a Catholic icon by your name am I right and did you just say that homosexuality was not morally offensive to God? Just asking for clarification here..... As I want to make clear that according to the Church and Her Teachings it is....

Not offensive to all Christians. And not offensive to me. If its offensive to God then that is between God and the homosexual. If there is no victim we have no right to intervene in or judge another person's walk through this life. That is for God to do.
 
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JeffreyLloyd said:
We will not allow these things to be promoted.
Sorry, Jeffrey, but that is not what Erwin said.

Erwin said:
This site itself does not have any stances for or against any of these topics - the site itself is neutral. The moderators may have their own views about things, but they do not necessarily speak for this site. This site is made up of its people - we strive to have it open to as many Christians as possible from as many backgrounds - while maintaing a balance of views between all concern.
 
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Erwin said:
This site itself does not have any stances for or against any of these topics - the site itself is neutral. The moderators may have their own views about things, but they do not necessarily speak for this site. This site is made up of its people - we strive to have it open to as many Christians as possible from as many backgrounds - while maintaing a balance of views between all concern.

So Jeff, does this not mean what it says? Will all staff enforce this neutrally as staff despite their views or their church's views?
 
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JeffreyLloyd said:
The site can be neutral all day long. That's not what I said. If someone promotes any of those topics, we will take action on it.
Just as when someone posts something against them. According to the rules. :angel:
 
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drstevej said:
So CF now is officially morally neutral about abortion, polygamy, transexuality, extra-marital sex and drug use?


That's sad and extremely dissapointing.


I could not encourage Christians to come to this type of morally indecisive site under the guise that they are entering a "Christian" forum.

I have encouraged others to come here before... this change will change my practice.
CF is a website - by itself it is neutral. It is the people and the membership that has opinions on issues - CF as a site is not here to tell Christians what to believe or what not to believe - Christianity is much too big for that - Christians are expected to study the Bible for themselves to discover the truth for themselves - this website is not here to tell Christians what is truth. Sure, the PEOPLE who come to this website may discuss what is considered truth, but the site itself will have no objective stances on these issues, basically because this site is merely a vehicle - you drive it where you believe God wants you to drive it.

This does not mean I don't have my own opinion on an issue. Nor does it mean that each individual member or staff member does not have his or her own opinion on an issue. The point is CF as a whole, as a website, as a community, cannot have just ONE opinion on an issue - this is a community, and as such, would have the opinions of all of its members, whether you as an individual agree or disagree with it.

This does not mean this site is going to become a non-Christian site - far from it - the membership are by far mainly Christian - it is important to note that these Christians do come from different backgrounds - this site is not here to replace God, the Bible or their church and tell them what to believe.
 
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Not offensive to all Christians. And not offensive to me. If its offensive to God then that is between God and the homosexual. If there is no victim we have no right to intervene in or judge another person's walk through this life. That is for God to do.
So then you bear the Catholic icon but are not in line with the Holy See of Rome? Just clarifying .....
 
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drstevej said:
So Jeff, does this not mean what it says? Will all staff enforce this neutrally as staff despite their views or their church's views?

Promoting those topics will break other CF rules.
 
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Anyway, this thread is going way OT - what we are discussing now has little relation to the rule revision which actually relaxes the posting of the restricted topics, and in fact, reduces the restriction. The rule neither condemns nor support any of the issues - the rule merely is there to assist in the regulation of such discussions between members.
 
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