Roving Eye

[Gardener101]

Please pray for me. I have a soft spot for beautiful things, and now I am aware of this absolutely handsome guy who is interested in me and I can't stop thinking about how gorgeous he is.

What worries me is that I already have a dropdeadgorgeous guy who treats me very well...

 

[dawnsday]

so? do you want to be with him or is it more like a fake/would never act on it. like i am totally in love with zach braff...and if i saw him in person i would fall all over myself. but in reality i would never give up my guy for him.

 

[Gardener101]

so? do you want to be with him or is it more like a fake/would never act on it. like i am totally in love with zach braff...and if i saw him in person i would fall all over myself. but in reality i would never give up my guy for him.

I don't know. I'm just very curious about dating this other guy.

Feeling this way...sucks.

 

[dawnsday]

I don't know. I'm just very curious about dating this other guy.

Feeling this way...sucks.

ah, well, one of two things could be happening here.

1. is that you are bored in your own relationship and miss the exciting "new" feeling (lucky for me that is actually the part i hate...so i don't get that lol!). That is when you would want to plan something special for you and your guy, or talk it out with him *don't be like "you bore me"...say "we're in a rut. let's try something new".

or

2. it's a sign of something wrong in your relationship. if this is it, then deep down you know this is it and you know you need to talk to him about it. if you don't think it is this, go back to number 1.

Oh, or you could just not be "available" for a bit...you know go out with friends, family, be alone. sometimes it is good to miss your man a bit.

 

[Beautiful Fireball]

I agree with dawnsday.But are you so sure that things with this other guy would be so much better? Or is it more of your committment issue?

But noticing another guy isn't a bad thing. But, if you're imagining how a relationship with him would be then yeah, thats bad.

Either way, hugs and prayers

 

[AWorkInProgress]

Please pray for me. I have a soft spot for beautiful things, and now I am aware of this absolutely handsome guy who is interested in me and I can't stop thinking about how gorgeous he is.

What worries me is that I already have a dropdeadgorgeous guy who treats me very well...

Learn what I do, look the other way. lol

I think God made me severly nearsided for a reason, so I place my glasses on my head. So they are a blur.

 

[AWorkInProgress]

I don't know. I'm just very curious about dating this other guy.

Feeling this way...sucks.

Well you always had a cat like curiousity. Just gotta learn how to diverte your curiousity. Dawnsday's idea sounds like a good one, to find something else to take up.

Oh I been learning how to be patient. One key element is learning to appresiate something. Taking time and just slowing down, for tomorrow small pleasures could be gone. Maybe take some time and just appresiate your boyfriend. Really not eyeing the clock, and go for walk or talk.

Just a thought sis.

 

[Greatcloud]

I am in a relationship and if things keep going like they are it will lead to marriage. My problem is that I have a roving eye,I am nice looking and so is my girlfriend.

When I go to the supermarket I just start looking at all the nice looking woman. I in fact tend to go a little crazy. There is no reason other then lust of the eye. And I need to stop.

I have gone and just looked with eyes forward,but then I find I notice some woman noticing me.

I know I just need to think of her and how I would act if she was right by my side. I would appreciate some good advice on how to stop flirting. Whenever I see my honey all thoughts of flirting are out the window. She really is worth it,thanks.