Hi everyone, it's been forever since I last logged in but I'm in a tough situation so I thought I could use some advice.
I lived happily with 3 flatmates when one day one of their close friends (let's say, Anna) moved in with us. She's been here for 4 months and in these four months the results of her stay with us are:
1) She got rid of our cleaner
2) One of my flatmates moved out because she couldn't stand Anna
3) Anna has made my flatmates (the owners) do repairs in the room she's in
4) The repairs are being done in a way to suit the racoon she's planning on getting in March
I've lived here for 2 years and still don't feel entitled to making any such decisions
Moreover, she came up to me today and said she doesn't like the air freshener (which I bought) and she was very upset when I told her she was not to throw it out.
I just feel like she's turned our lives upside down and is sucking the life out of us, making us dance to her tune. I could leave and find another place, but I love my other flatmates and I don't want to give in.
I'm confused as to what I should do and if there is anything at all that I can do. Advice and prayer welcome
Julie
I lived happily with 3 flatmates when one day one of their close friends (let's say, Anna) moved in with us. She's been here for 4 months and in these four months the results of her stay with us are:
1) She got rid of our cleaner
2) One of my flatmates moved out because she couldn't stand Anna
3) Anna has made my flatmates (the owners) do repairs in the room she's in
4) The repairs are being done in a way to suit the racoon she's planning on getting in March
I've lived here for 2 years and still don't feel entitled to making any such decisions
Moreover, she came up to me today and said she doesn't like the air freshener (which I bought) and she was very upset when I told her she was not to throw it out.I just feel like she's turned our lives upside down and is sucking the life out of us, making us dance to her tune. I could leave and find another place, but I love my other flatmates and I don't want to give in.
I'm confused as to what I should do and if there is anything at all that I can do. Advice and prayer welcome
Julie