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karla

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I am so sorry to hear of your loss. We recently miscarried our third child. A friend of mine miscarried their first child and was pregnant within three weeksof the miscarriage. Although the dr. told her to wait at least two cycles. She had a healthy beautiful baby girl and 18 months later had a beautiful baby boy :) The rate of miscarriage with every pregnancy is 15% which means that there is an 85% chance that you won't miscarry. It's not an uncommom thing, but it is definitely hard to go through. If you need to talk you can PM me. I'll keep you in my prayers.
 
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My ex-wife and I lost two children to miscarriages and the third one died of SIDS six (6) or so weeks after birth. I can empathize with you. It was the hardest thing I've ever had to deal with. I feel for your loss, but please don't give up. She went on to give me two (2) beautiful children that I love to pieces.
 
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My apologies.. its hard I know.
When I was about to get married (2001) Jessica became pregnant.... this wasnt the first time. But this time she passed the "2 month trail". On the 4-5 month she went to see the doctor and something was very wrong... she could feel it and the doc was right.
It was sad but the hard part on my end was I had set my mind that I was gonna be a dad and needed to make some changes quick. I was devestated. Crushed and an emotional wreck.... no one seemed to care. Least of all Jess, I came to later find out we were both struggling with this.... alone, when it could have been together. Anyway it took me about 6 months before it was cool with it again and understood that there was something wrong with the pregnancy, and that Jess's body reacted correctly (everything checked out she was really healthy)
It was a hill I had to climb, I thought i was alone, I wasnt. The kicker her name, Kylie Jade.....I can say that and be ok now.....

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Hi,

Sorry for your pain. In 2000 hubby and I lost our first child. In 2001 we were blessed again with a pregnancy, she was born happy and healthy in 2002 :) . She is not a replacement for our first blessed child, she is our second blessed child. May God grant you strength and peace.

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Thanks everyone. I gave my testimony at church today and it was a big step in the healing process. I told everyone what happened when we lost our son and told them what the Lords done in my life since then. I really touched a lot of hearts today and it was great.
I recently had thyroid surgery and found out i have hashimoto thyroiditis, and i have no medical insurance and i am not on meds yet, so i don tknow if that will be affecting my fertility. i know the Lord will bless with another baby in His time though. God Bless You All.
~Stacy
 
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mstodd919 said:
I dont know if im posting in the right place but oh well. I just want to know of any couples who miscarried their first child and went on to have more children.
We lost our first baby.

~Stacy


First of all, I am so sorry for your loss. :hug:

I have been there and I know how hard that can be to go through. My first pregnancy I miscarried at 10 weeks. My experience with this was a horrible ordeal. They couldn't tell me what went wrong. I was very scared that I won't ever have a child of my own. Now God has blessed me with a 3 year old boy and a 1 year old girl.

I don't know what the percentage rate is, but I know now that it is pretty common for this to happen with first pregnancies.

It is great that you were able to share this with others! That is a big step!!!

God Bless,
Jen
 
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