Tropologically, when the mind receives some measure of the light of discernment* by practicing stillness (
Manoah) and meditating (turning) on the words (cymbals) of God in his heart (
Hazelelponi), it is prompted by the Lord to go down to Timnah, i.e. to focus his attention to his flesh, the land of the passions (
Philistines**) and gain control of her (flesh is female in Greek) as if marrying her. As he makes his way through that land he comes across those things (vineyard) that stir up anger (lion) in us and darken our understanding, just like wine (the product of grapevines) intoxicates the mind. Aided by the Lord he puts this spiritual beast to death and continues his journey without boasting about it in his heart and mind (this is the meaning of not telling his parents about it). Meekness, which is by definition the death of anger, attracts then the
bees of wisdom, which in turn fill the mind with the honey of spiritual undestanding (Psalms 25:9). This is the honey that nourishes all our spiritual members and which our Samson shares with his family (soul).
At least this is my feeble attempt to extract some spiritual honey from the story, given the measure of understanding allotted to me by the Lord.
___________
* Samson being a judge and interpreted as ‘sun man’ symbolizes this.
** Philistines interpreted mean grievers, burrowers, weakeners, which is what the passions have done to our human nature after the fall. They burrowed in and weakened our will towards good and caused us immeasurable grief.