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Response to Woob

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Night, you have made a mockery out of me twice now in this thread. Please stop doing this.

I wasn't trying to make a mockery out of you. You did this all by yourself when you went after Moriah and she simply laughed at you. You should have just backed off when she told you to.

Just because she has allowed you to give her instruction on something, and not me, that doesn't mean I did something wrong.

What you did was the equivalent of using a full-on sledge-hammer for a thumbtack. There is a tactful way you can get your point across to her without driving her into a rage. So either you don't realize the reaction your words are causing with her or you don't care. Since I don't think you are oblivious that you wouldn't see it, I can only assume you don't care.

Even Jesus was rejected by many whom He had sought to instruct and correct. So don't even go there.

No one is 'rejecting' you. I am simply saying your approach only made things worse. I don't understand how you cannot see that.

And just because you are able to give her instruction, that doesn't mean you are going to give her what she really needs. So don't flatter yourself!

The Gospel of salvation is something we don't need?

Interesting. Completely preposterous, but interesting nonetheless.

No flattery here. Just stating the facts.
 

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The Gospel of salvation is something we don't need?

Interesting. Completely preposterous, but interesting nonetheless.

No flattery here. Just stating the facts.

That's not what I said. My point is that I don't believe you really know what the gospel is. Therefore, you wouldn't be able to give her what she really needs.

Moreover, it is not foreign to the gospel to issue a rebuke. You seem to think it is.

Oh, about you assuming that just because I got a bad response from Moriah, that must mean I did something wrong, you need to look more closely at this passage:

"Blessed are they which are persecuted for righteousness' sake: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake. Rejoice, and be exceeding glad: for great is your reward in heaven: for so persecuted they the prophets which were before you." (Mat 5:10-12)

I have no further desire to dialog with you on anything, as I don't consider you to be one that I can trust.
 
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She cannot be helped by us.

Exactly. So why are myself and the rest of the Progressives being raked over the coals because we realize this?

What a complete, useless waste of time and mental energy this forum has been lately. I have better ways to spend my day than fighting off the accusations and attacks of those who think I am under the 'authourity of Satan'.

Woob, you are in no position to rebuke anyone. Clean up your own backyard first.

A demon-afflicted person can recognize the Gospel and you cannot. Interesting.

Split the forum already.
 
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Those who newly come here see her saying how awful your faith is, and how wonderful satan is. Silence doesn't stop that either.:confused:

I am really beginning to sense the value in the old CF system. I am actually wishing that Erwin would bring back the old rules and implement the warning system again. The new approach is not working, especially in here. This is the worst that I have ever seen this forum.
 
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I think it puts people off your church!
Do you have a wiki? Does it allow people to post here who aren't sda to say how horrible the church is?
It was one of wooba's posts that caught my attention and brought me to this forum in June.
Had I read that 'stuff' I would have run away.
 
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I think it puts people off your church!
Do you have a wiki? Does it allow people to post here who aren't sda to say how horrible the church is?

Precisely the point that I have been trying to make the whole time! Unfortunately, even some Traditional members refuse to acknowledge this, as they want to be people pleasers more than soul-winners.

This is the biggest problem that we are facing in here, and why a split is needed. As long as we have a place for progressives in here (those that constantly complain about our church and its doctrine), we really can't do anything about this, as they outnumber us, and would never approve of censoring certain topics.

Many of the Traditional members have left as a result of their constant complaining and personal attacks. Hence our reason for being outnumbered. The funny thing is that the progressives seem to think it is our fault that they are the way they are. Do they expect us to just sit back and swallow their venom when they come in here and bash our church? Of course we are going to get upset with them. So then we end up getting into a heated argument with them, and then they turn it back on us and say we are the bad ones because we are arguing with them! The ones that do this are masters of manipulation.

Of course, if there is a split, then we run into the problem of them being allowed to identify themselves as SDA on here, which I don't think is right, because they obviously despise the SDA church:doh:

It's just all messed up!
 
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OK you 2 this is a site of love and acceptance. we need to be gentle . If you 2 have a problem please take it to private messaging and work it out! I don't know either of you but it seems you are getting caught up in differences which are totally ludicrous. The love and acceptance will win over all this fighting reporting and nonsense. If we keep positive energy flowing in and around this place No dark energy can exist. For the power of our love and energy we can abolish all this dissension and hatred and conflict. Thanks to JESUS this healing has started the day he was resurrected AMEN now lets play nicely.
 
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If we keep positive energy flowing in and around this place No dark energy can exist. For the power of our love and energy we can abolish all this dissension and hatred and conflict.
Wrong. Dark energy exists and some seem to welcome it here.
Our love and energy can do Nothing, only God!
 
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Some peopel ARE welcoming it here Howard.

We are cuirrently working out our Warning and Forum-specific ban system. Honestly, it looks GREAT to me and I think it needs to go up for vote immediately.

Things like that thread would be deleted immediately, because they are FAR from respectful.
Do you meaan me AS in welcoming dark energy? OOh I hope NOt :cry:
 
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Jonathan, if I thought you were I'd say something to you in PM brother.

No, you're praying for her and that's all we really can do.

Did you post a picture with a sexual act on it in her other thread?
nope! never would either. I am praying for you too sister Lainie if anybody is close to me is you lainie. I love you sister. It would kill me for sure. no If im wrong and someone corrects me I will always stay positive and NEVEr let anything come between me and my fellowship with others.
 
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